A perspective on a conversation?

[Naturopathic Paladin]

After dating this girl 3 years ago we spent 5 days in the woods together and this was the evening after we left each other message she sent me. I would like to hear some perspectives if you have a moment to share

Girl:
Herroo ?
Me:
rwar!
Baby I wants cuddles your face smile emoticon
Girl:
U forgot about me
Me:
Lol
no I am typing right now
I would never forget you
boom!
Girl:
U might lol
Me:
nah.. you will always find me
Girl:
I know... So wutcha doing

Me:
Looking up camping gear right now and setting up my fund account

Girl:
Ohh

?

Me:
looking at filters.. need to get a better one

What you up too? Mis girl in bed already?

Girl:
Bear is still awake fighting her sleep

Me:
Ha ha I bet she just misses you alot

Girl:
Ya she does but dang she needs sleep

Did u pass out

Me:
No looking at swords. Kinda fading in and out

Girl:
So want me to let u go since your still bust

Busy
ME:
I'm not busy. I'm juts chilling
What's you doing smile emoticon

Girl:
Watching turbo with Carly

Me:
I love turbo.

Girl:
Me too the snails are racing up the taco sign rite now lol

Me:
I like bolt too

Girl:
That's a good one I like a bugs life

Me:
Ants is funny.. kinda adult humorous I thought

Girl:
Awesome
Me:
OK now I'm going to bed babe. Me tired smile emoticon


Girl:
Oh wow u only talked to me about stuff online pretty much the whole time

Well wutever nite.

Me:
Boo!
I like my camping stuff
.. what you doing?
What do you like?
What do you want to talk about? I have been applying online most of the the night for housing smile emoticon
5 hours ago

Girl:
K

Glad u like your camping stuff. And your rocks. But that's not really how u should spend your time with me. Its like when we dated before u get so involved in crafts u don't really hangout with me or spend quality time

Figure it out cuz that's one of the main reasons I left u last time.and I'm not going down that road again where I have to beg for not shared attention


ME: 36 minutes ago
I spent the last 4 days with you camping. I Dont feel like a few hours of time to my self is unhealthy. you are not robbed for attention from me. I don't think it fair for me to FIgure it out. Im happy with all the hobbies and things I love to do. Those hobbies brought me back from depression and being sad. I did not have a girl there to help me recover. It was my own hobbies and passions that kept me around. they are apart of me casue. I hope you reread that last message you sent me and let me know if you still feel that way. Cause Im not about that life. I wont make you beg for attention but I will be my own person.
I really hope that you like alot of the hobbies I do and get involved. I would love to teach you and take the time to show you anything you want to learn. Your such a great soul and bright light to have in my life. You forever will be my best friend and respect I have found for you is deep. I hope you wake up with a big fat smile. I miss the hammock and see you soon.

 

[Suspens]

http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/
goodluck

 

[Yewki]

Overall you should cut back on the lovey-dovey role playing crap it makes you seem desperate. Stop texting multiple messages back to back. Never text a giant paragraph like you did at the end. If you really have to tell her that much, do it in person or over the phone.

I don't know the full context but this girl seems like a needy drama queen who you're better off without, but at the same time you also failed her sh*t tests... badly. You gave her more and more attention as she pulled back.

Stop chasing something that you don't need. You're like a dog fetching a ball when she pulls back. Stop it. She acts up and pulls away? If anything you should distance yourself. She seems pretty annoying, there's probably a reason you broke up 3 years ago.