"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Perfect List

phoenix_met

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Hey buddies,
I've made a convinent list for myself.(My biggest problem is forgetting the things i learn hear when i see a hot girl).So i take out some good advices from the articles and write them down on a notebook call dating-notebook.So I can study them any time.
sample:
1)You just approach to learn something new(look it as a training)
2)Do it as a fun

3)Always SMILE
4)Fix the body language(You are james bond or the master of universe)

5)Make eye contact(very important)
6)Do not hesitate and obey the 3 second rule(tell yourself grow some balls")
7)Confuse her with your attitude(You are the great catch-don't be as same as last 99 men)
8)C&F

9)Nothing will happen if a stuiped girld reject you(She miss the oppertunity)
10)Skip it and go to next one

you see it is short and useful and you can use it before and during an approach
If you think you can add something to it or modify it write it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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Here's a hint. Don't think about anything other then attempting to have a good time with someone you don't know. Be it female or male, go in with the thought of "this person looks intersting and cool, I bet if I talk to them I'll entertain myself" and you'll have no problem. I don't know why so many people make such a big deal about aproaching girls. If you don't want to or are not in the mood then don't. If you're feeling bold and are in good spirits then do it. If she tells you to f*ck off then take a shot of Jim Beam Black Label or whatever your favorite drink is and shake it off.
 

Chemistry

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You shouldn't have any trouble remembering these things because that actually apply to every social situation, lol... its difficult for most dudes on here to remember though because they've never been sociable creatures! It's like trying to run before you can walk for a lot of them...
 

phoenix_met

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Hey
I'm an extrovert and fully social.I don't have any problem talking to people and i always admire for that.I can easily talk infront of a crowd.but when it's time to approach a girl and ask for number everything change.So I should find a way to stay focus.I think there is an invisible wall infront of me(LOL)
 
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