A parallel between sosuave and riding a bicycle

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

MetalFortress

Master Don Juan

Sep 2, 2004

This is like training wheels on a bike. What is the purpose of training wheels? With them, you learn how to ride (or at SS, how to be a true man) and get comfortable with it, albeit with some help. Once you are ready, you take the training wheels off, and go out on your own. After awhile you become a natural, and it becomes something you can't forget (riding a bike, or being a man)

But be careful not to use either one as a crutch for too long, or you will become dependent. Get out on your own and carve a path all your own!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.