"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A pair of cougars write book about undateable men
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Very acute observation. Girls in the end are all about attention, and anything that takes away from the attention they get (including video games) they will disdain.mrRuckus said:
I would say that attention is even more important to a girl than money.
Girls love guys who work hard, cause money comes in, but girls hate guys who are workaholics even if they make bank, because they get no attention - their man is always at work.
5string
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Amen RolloRollo Tomassi said:
tincanman99
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I am sure they are a bunch of aging fat hags who couldnt get laid if they were waving $100 bills.
jophil28
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Yeah, I agree. This is just another thinly disguised moan by two overvalued, overused and superannuated femmes to whine about all those men who were just not interested.tincanman99 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Luthor Rex
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It's called The Ultimate Merger. On this show, she's surrounded by a bunch of dudes vying for her affection. All things being equal, most of the guys are what most women would consider attractive.
On part of the episode I watched, she was in a bikini with 3 guys surrounding her at the time. Later in the show, she damn near disqualified one of the three guys because he was "sweating" too much to suit her tastes.
"He was sweating a lot, and that was such a turnoff". She said.
Now, how all this relates to this thread is this:
When the guy was next to her sweating too much-------she, him, and the other two guys were all sitting in a heated, fukking WHIRLPOOL!!!
Amazing isn't it?
Sigh...in the black community, in our theater of war (the dirty south) we call these kinds of women UHTDW-BBWs. And UHTDW-BBW is an acronym that means a "Unecessarily Hard to Deal With Bitter Black Woman".
So, according to THIS particular UHTDW-BBW, yo' muthafukkin' MANHOOD can be called into question for perspiring when you're HOT. And this overly opportunistic chick has the nerve to WONDER why her marriage failed...
Just goes to show you that when SOME women are looking for an excuse to JUSTIFY their lack of ability to KEEP a man in ther lives PAST the point of the first pussssy plundering-----ANY lame ass excuse that enters into their vacuous little minds will do.
VU