"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A other social experiment about which body type women want

Who Dares Win

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9X_-CLBubU

So if you are too lazy to watch the video.

1)average height guy with a fitness model look

2)tall pale guy with dad bod

3)short guy with dad bod

The result is that most of the girls choosed the fitness model type guy altought those who had the chance to "mix" the types, choosed a mix between the fitness model and the tall guy.

The short guy with the dad bod got no preferences of course.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko

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I don't doubt that most women would go for the fitness guy, but I'm not sure that was a fair comparison. The fitness dude was the only guy with a tan, and he also had a full head of hair. His nearest competitor, the tall guy, was balding.

No surprise the short dude came in last, sorry, shorter lads.
 

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Actually you're right, the masculine facial shape of the fitness guy, his tan and his full head of hair may had play a role in that.

I wonder if a guy with tom cruise face and hairline was to face a fitness model looking like jason statham, what the result would be.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Actually you're right, the masculine facial shape of the fitness guy, his tan and his full head of hair may had play a role in that.

I wonder if a guy with tom cruise face and hairline was to face a fitness model looking like jason statham, what the result would be.
Well, they say that being cut improves the shape of your face, jaw line and all, so there's that.

I would like to see a bit of a fairer fight, though. This one seemed to be rigged, even though I agree the fitness guy probably wins out anyway.

Cruise is 5'7", so that would be a good looking short guy.
Put him up against the fitness dude, then find a good looking tall guy, then it would be interesting to see what happens. :up:

By the way, I think having a good tan is an attractive factor that isn't talked about much on here. Back before I got into lifting, I was a pretty skinny dude, but I kept a good tan, and that offset my scrawniness somewhat. Of course, a tan can be damaging in the long term.
 

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So being short is a sure way of not having the life you want?

I'm about 5'8" (172cm) but I've heard the line "if you were a few cm (inches) taller, I would go for you" a lot of times. I'm good looking as I get this compliment often, but I don't see girls engaging.

So I'm doomed?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There is a material difference between what women will overtly disclose they desire--as opposed to--what they truly desire. A fitness body is hardwired to be desired, not a conscious choice.

While it's clear that no one man is the type for ALL women, I can bet you that if we lined up the women the tall guy and the fitness guy in the video had normally dated in the past, you would see a 2-3 pt. disparity in the looks dept of those women.

To alleviate any ambiguity: A 9 guy cannot get every 9 girl, but he can get many 9 girls--and keep them.
 

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If you're short go for short girls.

As for the fitness dude, of course he will clean up. That's like us choosing between a bikini fitness model and a 350 lb whale.
 
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