"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A or B - Looking for Some Starting Advice

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Hi all

So after 6 months of messing around with dumbells in my room, I've taken the plunge and gotten me a gym subscription. I intend to make a log in the near future, but I am a little stuck on which of the two 'main' workout routines to follow: A or B.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444

I tend to see most people starting off with the B, and admittedly it does look more noob-friendly, but I'm wondering if A is more condusive to mass building (all that squatting's got to build some mad leg strength).

Your thoughts/opinions? :)

Cheers
Adam
 

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YOUR ROUTINE

Pick 1, and only 1 they both work, don't make a big deal of it just pick one. Don't alter it, do it just as written.

WHAT PART DID YOU NOT UNDERSTAND :cuss:


I say if you are really weak then do A. As in if you squat below 125lbsx5. This is squatting as low as you can by the way.

If you are more in the region of 150lbsx5 I'd do B.

Just pick one.
 

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B, then, I suppose. No need for the angry smileys though - if you could add additional advice to the original information then it's not a case of not understanding, but being unsure due to lack of advice.

Cheers
Adam
 

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"A" is without a doubt better. Field tested on a lot more people with great results given adequate food and protein.

I'm personally getting far better results basically doing only these lifts than i ever did with all that pullthroughs, curls, leg press, etc nonsense (at this level):

Squats
Deadlifts
Bent over rows (the real 90 degree kind)
Pullups/chins
Overhead press
Dips

That's IT.

I haven't even benched in over 6 months, but i did put like 40 lbs on my overhead press in that time. And whatever i added to dips... hard to tell with changing bodyweight :) Not that there's anything that wrong with bench at low weights but I just don't really like to do it at all and don't want to deal with spotters anyway.

Tried replacing rows with power cleans but it kept hurting my right biceps, but that was sore from softball in the summer so maybe i should try again... when i'm done progressing 5 lbs a week easily :)

I think people mostly don't do 'A' because it lacks variety and people are scared of squats 3 days a week. Pu55ies.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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never mind, not worth going over the same old stuff again
 
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Triple T said:
I just started B! (week 1)
Make a log, I'm 16 too.

Lets see who gets the most gains!!
I love competing! :D

PS. Heres my log:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154149
Ha, that is a tempting challenge - my stats are very similar to yours (5'6.5'', 120lbs).

That said, A does sound like the better routine - you up for switching to A Triple?

:yes:

Cheers
Adam
 

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Adam said:
Ha, that is a tempting challenge - my stats are very similar to yours (5'6.5'', 120lbs).

That said, A does sound like the better routine - you up for switching to A Triple?

:yes:

Cheers
Adam
Haha, how about YOU do A.
I'll do B.

And we'll see which program is better! :whistle:

Up for the challenge? :trouble:
 

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Triple T said:
Haha, how about YOU do A.
I'll do B.

And we'll see which program is better! :whistle:

Up for the challenge? :trouble:
It's on :woo:

Thanks for the help fellers, I'll be starting the A varient of the workout. I'll make a log sometime this week with pictures hopefully.

See you there :D

Cheers
Adam
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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