A night out, SMV and succes

[Von]

I wanna share a good and positive experience... Last night was quite a night.

First, I had a fight with my GF (first fight in 7 months)
2nd, Had a family birthday party where ties with my brother became deeper and stuff discussed that will never leave the balcony

3rd: The reason of this thread.... my night finished alone at my local bar where I am a regular (maybe once a week or a month)

There is this 10HB barmaid (total beauty and quite the energy), we know each other by name.

Before I even sit at the bar, she poured me a drink and putted it where I was going (fine she knows me). Than we start chatting, the usual stuff... I am between 2 other guys... è

1 guy seems to be flirting with her and find out he's also a regular, and he asked her number... the other one... someone casual

So I struck a conversation with both guys, told the interested guy in the barmaid to hit on her:.. go for it. We chatting and bounding... it came naturally.

Than the barmaid comes in, without me asking: Give me her phone number. As the night progress, we take pictures together (I only asked for the picture) and when I left... she paid for all my drinks (3 drinks + food), the 2 guys I was chatting with went from strangers to friends.

So, I am happy and call it a positive night... Why?

1) I don't wonder if the number is fake or not, if she did it for attention or not but she did make a move without me asking it.
2) I made friends with 2 guys who later became friends when I was leaving, the barmaid and bar
3) If I had stayed until closure (i did went to bed at 5am still lol)... maybe I would have gotten laid...
4) I've got complimented on how in shape I look.
5) Improvement and casuality everywhere (oh i did makeup with the GF too)

So I believe, I exhibited SMV in a positive light... a clear progress

 

[wifehunter]

Ain't attraction fun?

Way more fun than 'dating'.

 

[BeExcellent]

Nice one Von. Your inner growth & attitudes are shaping your behavior effortlessly. Kudos. You are getting very strong inner game. People all around sense this and are attracted to it like a magnet.

At the same time your GF is continuing to get the message that YOU are the boss of you & the master of your life...not anybody else. That is the message she needs to keep getting.

Proud of you. Cheers! BE

 

[Von]

Nice one Von. Your inner growth & attitudes are shaping your behavior effortlessly. Kudos. You are getting very strong inner game. People all around sense this and are attracted to it like a magnet.

At the same time your GF is continuing to get the message that YOU are the boss of you & the master of your life...not anybody else. That is the message she needs to keep getting.

Proud of you. Cheers! BE

Boss of my own life, indeed. She on my train or not

Compromise do exists and happens but never at the expense of the frame, the leading, the respect.

very good.

see, guys already KNOW what to do and how to behave NATURALLY.

and now you are aware of intergender dynamics and game.

you can refine it all to a science.

Thanks and you are right.

However, I worked to get there, I trained, grew, lived experience to mature.

I always did things for me since the day I decided to be alpha, DJ, redpill etc

It became natural because I've put years of hard work and process, while taking the advices given to me.

Success or result were not an overnight thing.

About dating and science, you are again right. It's a science because it takes research, empirical testing, data analysis (results) in order to have rapport (conclusion and closure). Women all work the same, you come to understand it and it sets you above everyone.

However, like everything: do it for yourself

Otherwise all this thinking, research, testing will drive you nuts and be counterproductive.

Live your life, be in moment, seize the opportunity