fieldman12
Don Juan
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I am sure I will get knocked by allot of people for what I am about to write, and their is allot that will agree with me also. I use to be very, very, AFC and in the last few years have got very well with dealing with woman. Now here is my thing. This is what I have noticed about most guys and girls of today. I honestly feel that our society in the US has gotten way out of hand as far as relationships. It just seems to me that everbody cheats on somebody, mutiple partners in the bed at the same time, and on and on. Now i know all of this has went on since the beginning of time, but some of the things I am seeing makes me never want to get married here in the US. What I have noticed as a guy is that allot of girls are getting rid of guys that they should keep and marry. Now yes, I am sure some of the guys go AFC big time, but some just really love that girl. What i have noticed is relationships these days are fly by night. I here girls say that a guy is to nice and so on. Well I have looked into some of these cases and it just is not true. All of these guys and girls I have noticed that have these issues I have found out one thing. They have all been very hurt in the past by a realatioship that has gone bad and just have never gotten over it. Guys and girls both talk about wanting someone to love and be with all their life, but when the first little bump comes, they are ready to get out of the relationship. I often find who they decide to next have a relationship with ends up cheating on them, beating them, trying to kill them, plays mind games, or just leaves them and guess what they love them like no other. Why do people now choose to be unhappy? I know my personal self that I am not out to do every girl out their. Yes, I have done a few differnet girls, but never cheated on any of them. I know I dont want to have to go through life and think "what type of emotional roller coaster ride do I need to give our relationship today". I am sorry but this is not what relationships should be built on and never was ment to be. I look at my relatives and ask my self quesions like okay what attracted them to each other and what is holding them together. What do I do wrong in a relationship that they seem to have right. I see a future where marriage will be a thing of the past if things dont change. It seems that all people no matter how old, ugly, pretty, rich, or poor are having these problems. I often think about how I live in the greatest country in the world, but live in the worst country to have a wife and a family in. It now takes the both of you to raise a family and all of this just adds to stress that yesterdays man and woman did not have to worry about as much. I am sure people will make fun of me on here and call me AFC, but ask yourself this. Is things in relationships like they where 50 years ago and now how do you go about making a relationship work. Im sorry for the long post but allot of guys and girls around me have been seeing this big problem. It is not ment to be that you need to chase ten girls all the time because your affraid of falling in love with one and them then deciding to get weird and dump you. How do you all think about todays relationships?