"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A New View of Myself

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A couple of minutes ago, I was reminiscing about this perfect 10 i know i cant have. I am absolutely sure she's a perfect ten, but she is currently enjoying a relationship. I then feel a bit hurt that I cant have this girl , not only because a 10 is extremely rare, but also because we had such memorable times in a class we once had.
I know that I am already friendzoned by her and have no hopes but stay friends, but I told myself that if I EVER in my life meet another 10 AGAIN, I will show her a passion of mine so great that I will trophy it FIRST, and maybe, just maybe, have the girl second. A moment ago from now, I have made a promise that I will love popping EVERY SINGLE DAY OF MY LIFE and be great at it. Its been a month since I started this, and now Im fully dedicated. Its a big commitment, but my passion will hopefully reward me the true DJ life. I love popping to dubstep, and like the quote from the DJ Bible, I will eat, live, and breath dubstep :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't forget to keep your mind open. We change and refusing to acknowledge that will cause you a world of pain.
 
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My mind is very open. I am a natural artist and I sing from time to time . I was very fascinated by popping so I wondered, could I do it too? Of course I can :)
 
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Focus intently on your passion and it will draw all other positives to you. You're in a good place, work harder than you ever have before.
 
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I am , learningslowly , thank you for noticing. Today I did something about it. I will ne posting it iny journal :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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