"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A New Type of Problem...

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base2ball2boy2

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After four years of High School, it's amazing how you can get around. Some good times, some bad, and some extremely hott ones...

But I find myself scraping the bottom of the barrel these days. In my process of AFC -> DJ, I've screwed myself over with a lot of girls, but así es la vida.

So now my last decent option is one girl I NEXTed my freshman year. I thought my AFC ways back then had totally screwed me over, but I figure it's definitely worth a shot (HB 9...).

Now I'm confident in my skills as a DJ, I'm positive I can turn her around, but the trouble is, I don't really have a chance to talk to her. All I need is like 5-10 minutes of straight talking, and I'm 100% positive I can land a date.

We don't have any classes together, and our extent of talking is a quick "Hi" in the hallway... How do you guys suggest I proceed? What's the best way I can get her alone for a few minutes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you see her in the hallway, instead of walking by, walk up next to her and just get the conversation going. Tell her your going to walk her to her next class.
 
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War Against Betaism

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Find ANY excuse to talk to her, even if it's lame and dumb. One you could use is "Hey you have a quarter? My cell phone is going to die and I need to make a call later," even if you have full battery. Whether or not she gives you one should not matter; after that just be like "So how have you been? Feels like I haven't talked to you in years!" and take it from there.
 
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