"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A new place to hit up girls, need openers

Livinlifehard

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We have a borders, with is in a nice part of town and is a book store/seattle coffie shop. So he said go in there, sit down and read and wait for a girl to come in a read you like and go for it.... he gave me a few openers here is one

I know were in a coffie shop, but would you like to go out and get some coffie sometime... (sounds better then in text).

Anyways hit me with some suggestions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PleasureKing

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the classic "hi how are you" works wonders as well.

you: hi how are you
her: fine
you: of course you are
you: whats your name?
her: X
.......make it flow

or if this happens
you: hi how are you
her: good
you: me too.
you: hey i noticed how SEXY your shoes look, you have nice a taste [wink] (dont say this if she has ugly shoes on lol)
her: oh haha thanks
you: yea i saw many other girls who have the same pair. (<-------NEG HIT!)
.......make it flow
 

qweretyuiopas

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hi is the best opener ever period. go into introductions, find something about her u like and say it besides her looks, maybe a book or outfit or whatever. blah blah blah small talk, i gotta go you wanna do blah blah sometime cool lemme get your number and ill call u. bye smile and leave. no need to talk to her forever there or else she may get the friend vibe going.

be confident and that should do fine and any chick who isnt nice to an approach like that is stuckup and u dont want them anyway
 

nvictor

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find something about her u like and say it besides her looks
that's POWERFUL. I did it with a married woman on day. Just said she has style. Now I don't say she's into me but we are more than acquaintance now...
 
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