A new phenomenon, girls reinforcing their herd mentality

[Who Dares Win]

This is something I noticed as well recently but didnt paid too much attention, however this post from Atom in an other thread reminded me of that:

I believe that something is going on in our society that even our community has not identified and defined yet.

I attend certain parties a few times a year, usually having to do with this or that politician retiring, their daughter's "sweet 16" parties, graduation parties and the like. I have a family member who is highly connected in political circles.

After the formal festivities the dj opens up the floor to dancing, and astonishingly the girls all herd together on the dance floor en masse, to the complete and utter exclusion of the boys, who are doing their own thing at the tables and on the sidelines. These girls literally do all these dances together, eventually doing all their moves in lock-step, and always culminating in the crowd of girls all converging into the center as tightly as is humanly possible, in essence trying to become one unit. Throughout the entire time, there is not even one male on the dance floor.

I haven't figured out what is going on with this yet but I suspect it is only a symptom of something very, very bad and far-reaching in its implications.

I don't know if this phenomenon is happening across the country, but this is the way it is every single time here in the NYC suburbs. The girls have absolutely zero interest in the boys at these functions, and again, to witness them physically converging in on themselves into a tight-knit ball of female flesh is a sight to behold. They're acting out something which seems to me represents a radical shift in herd-think.

Dont know exactly how to explain it but I guess its a circle begun from the notions that guys at the club are "creep untill proven otherwise" and that women (ugly or cute doesnt really matter) take it as a badge of value to isolate and reject them even better near a audience.

It also seems like they divide men in two cathegories which are not hot and ugly as we do but more like "human" and "accessories", where the humans are their family members or friends or the cool guys which are given the status of person with feelings and dignity while the tools are simply object of which they can dispose as they want with no conseguence.

Think of no repliying to a text with the conviction that behind the cellphone theres not a person but simply a tool as many others which deserve nothing no different than their drier or washingmachine.

Apparently a "cliq" based on sex/status is on the making...

Needless to say the more women see such things the more their sheep mentality make sure they fit themselves into it.

What is your opinion?

 

[Mike32ct]

Thank you for starting a separate thread on this. You read my mind. I'll have some thoughts on this a little later.

 

[nismo-4]

Thank you for starting a separate thread on this. You read my mind. I'll have some thoughts on this a little later.

I notice this a lot too!

When you're going for a girl, it's like you're performing to get on America's Got Talent, complete with all the judges waiting to buzz your ass off.

Girls do this herd sh*t to minimize creepers (average guys) I see it in Atlanta quite a bit!

 

[Alvafe]

hmm so you guys are saying the females are pretty much closing guys out of all clubs and such? not like before if you want a girl you need or to isolate the girl from her friends or make part of the circle to disarm all others? like its getting even more like high school even in clubs now?

 

[Night-hawk]

A girl'ls ego is multiplied by the size of, and hotness scale of the herd she is in. Her mentality is given entitlement feed from the fellow members. You may see such herds gathering in tight clusters as if to ward of potential annoyances they call men, unless said annoyances put little tingles in their panties and in which said annoyance is approved upon by the herd to be moved up to amusement and then to shepherd in which the herd lets their member stray.

 

[SirFratserlot]

Yeah that's why there's no point in me chasing girls. If a girl wants me than she can chase me.

 

[yyc12]

This isn't any new phenomenon. Back when I was in college in '03, the college girls at the clubs were doing this all the time. They go in groups of 3 or more and dance in a circle facing each other. Whenever a guy came up behind her to dry hump, she'd signal to the other girls and if he doesn't pass their creep test, they pull her away from him. Very hard to "pry" a girl away from the herd. Even if your target in the group likes you, she'll still likely reject you to enhance her standing in the herd by showing how high her "standards" are, :crackup: . Most men realize this and don't even bother approaching the group, hence the reason they're all on the sidelines.

 

[Night-hawk]

Well said, yyc12. This strategy is nothing new with girls.

 

[In2theGame]

This is definitely true but doable. When I'm out i try to stay back and chill out with my drink while talking with friends by the bar. Even though a lot of women have stated they think I'm hot or gorgeous, I know i cant just go up to that group and pick the girl i want while not getting blocked by either the fat one, ugliest one or the prude of the group. However depending on how im feeling.. ive managed to do it by going in and straight out get the one girl in the group away from her friends. Ive done it once where the girl was walking back to my hotel room while 5 of her friends were calling her to stay with them... i stopped and looked at her with a smirk and said "do you want to just stay with them or come back with me, i dont want to make it uncomfortable for you" she ended up ignoring her friends and i gave it to her all night.

The next time was a group of 8 with guys in there,... i stayed back and not make it obvious i was checking a certain girl out... i saw her by the bar and i acted like i was just getting a drink right by her without looking at her... i then watched to see when her friends were looking away... i tapped her and told her straight out that i was checking her out earlier and i thought she was so sexy.. once she smiled.. i bought her a drink and we ended up together that night. It was funny because at one point i had my arms around her and one of the guys came close to us and stood there standing and i told her... Oh i didnt mean to bother if you were with him,, she told him to leave

Another time it was a group of 10 girls bachelorette party i went in to talk to the fat one, i made good with her, i got her to introduce me to the blonde that was with them.. i went to work on her and her friends thought i was hot so i kept on going with it got her number although she told me she had a BF but i ended up with another girl that night.

Just a few examples of being able to penetrate the group and getting the girl you want in the group but overall, my advice is you see the girl you want and observe the group shes with and with who (Mixed with guys or all girls) observe if the group is tightly together or spread out..etc Wait till you see the right opportunity like if she goes to the bar alone or with a friend.. or if shes just standing around sipping on a drink swaying her body to the music.. kind like if shes bored that no one is talking to her( although this one could be tricky because she could be standing there waiting for her BF that went to the mens room).

It sounds crazy that you kind of need a "planned attack" on your prey lol but with a group, it can be tough to just go in and get the girl without getting blocked in some way.

 

[mv.89]

I read somewhere that men don't mind sharing how they pick up women but Women who have a luck with good men don't share squat.

They need ultimate sperm and we need multiple sperm carriers, so this aforementioned phenomenon wouldn't be contrary to that theory ?

I'd also like to "think" that if an Alpha does show up then all the women will be competing for his attention and that herd would turn into a fight club lol ?