"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a new kind of post.

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Ok so here goes....
Have this girl, sexes me in the car whenever, wherever...I never drive, I always make her drive. She throws a tantrum and I explain that I hate to drive so I don't. She pouts for ten minutes, then apologizes for her behavior. I agree and continue to rub on her thighs as she deals with traffic haha...just some examples.

Stopped seeing her for two months cuz I needed space. Next meeting out with her I tell her nothing sexual is going to happen so she can forget it and just have a nice casual dinner with me. At the end of dinner she's asking for it. So we go to her new car and she tells me this....tell me when you're about to cvm because I don't want stains in my new car. Nice! Ok, so I tell her I'm about to finish and before I know it she's sucking me dry and [email protected] as to prevent stains. Lol.

Tell me about this girl guys...is she not the coolest? I was trying to bring positive stories to the table that's all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's amazing what chicks do sometimes....and I love it.
 

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Does she flake on you? Does she give you crap about nothing? Does she complain? Make you do her dishes? No! This is a girl that is interested in you and is looking for sexy time.

Let it be known that an interested girl will do some crazy no-holds-barred shıt with you when she wants to. This is precisely why you walk when she doesn't give two shıts about you.

Good post.
 

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Yea...its awesome. If she doesn't shave down there I won't go down. One time I promised her to go down, but when I did, she hadn't shaved. I quickly lost my mojo and acted like i was sleepy.....she got super butt hurt. Ok...now she stays trimmed just how I like it all the time.

Through so many tantrums or shyt tests....I really do believe that she just wants me to put her in her place. So I immediately straighten her up drill sergeant style and she's putty in my hands once again.

The funny thing is that now she wants to get in better shape, etc.
 
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