"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a new hairstyle

scribblec

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so basically ive been bored with the haircut i usually get and now my hairs too long and i need a haircut, i was thinking of trying something new but my hair is thick and not straight so when its cut short everythings fine, but leave it a week or 2 and grows thick again and not straight, i will now post some pics to give you an idea of what it looks like




this is how it looked at one point



and now i dont know what to do so any advice on what would look good would be nice, and i kno some of you will say whatever you want and it doesnt matter as long as ur confident your hairstyle wont matter etc, but i know if my hair looks great then i will have a great amount of confidence so any help appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scribblec

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MisterMcGee said:
Go to a hair salon. This is sosuave.

OH RLY?!?

well seeing as im on a forum full of guys who pull alot of girls they must surely have some hair tips, thats like saying go to a ****ing prostitutes house instead of being here to learn to better yourself

well go take your useless post somewhere else, if anyones got real advice im still listening
 

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your hair looks good in the second pic but if you want something new cut it short.
 

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I'm still kind of surprised how many people think this is a PUA forum where we concentrate on outer game and 'pullin girls'...it isn't. Let us not be known as PUAs, we're all about "DJ" and, well, being a 'MAN'. This is an inner game forum, so the answer is to have your hair whichever way makes you 'feel good'. Obvious? A lot of inner game stuff IS. :p

Getting advice and tips on how to 'better your appearance' cause you're 'bored with your hairstyle' - that's all advice you should be seeking in the real world, from friends, or an appropriate forum.

Nobody goes to Dr. Phil and asks him how to invest in stocks. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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scribblec

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MisterMcGee said:
I'm still kind of surprised how many people think this is a PUA forum where we concentrate on outer game...it isn't. It's an inner game forum, so the answer is to have your hair whichever way makes you 'feel good'.
Getting advice and tips on how to 'better your appearance' cause you're 'bored with your hairstyle' - that's all advice you should be seeking in the real world, from friends, or an appropriate forum.

Nobody goes to Dr. Phil and asks him how to invest in stocks. ;)

look i know its an inner game thing but im still a young guy and if the outer game looks good my inner game looks even better, when you wake up in a good mood doesnt everything seem to just click the rest of the day?

now say i wake up tomorow get a fresh haircut look brilliant feel brilliant etc, hows that going to reflect on everyone around me? they will probably feel the good aura aswell. maybe i did post this in the wrong place who knows
 

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I'm just saying it's silly to be asking advice on your hair because youre "bored with it". That has nothing to do with what this forum is. You simply think we're a reliable bunch of people who have good taste on how to attract women, so you ask us about hair styles.
All I said is hair salons are experts in this field, and if you seriously want a good answer, go there.
 

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ive seen questions ranging from hair to clothes to shoes, i just dont see any harm in me asking for myself
 

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MisterMcGee said:
I'm still kind of surprised how many people think this is a PUA forum where we concentrate on outer game and 'pullin girls'...it isn't. Let us not be known as PUAs, we're all about "DJ" and, well, being a 'MAN'.
Hmmm don't try to make it as you'd like it to be. This board I believe is about personal development of all sorts(disclaimer:I believe, I am not trying to make it what I want it to be, in case you try to turn the argument back on me; :p).

Now if personal development for you is about being a "man", going home and masturbating furiously, so be it. Just don't try to push it on the rest of u.

Despite wat you might think, this board is very much about picking up girls too. And I'm sure many agree. I have no idea how you came to the bull**** conclusion otherwise. So if some1 needs such advice, let him be. Feel free to ignore him if you wish.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yo scribblec,

Stop wasting your 10 posts on idiotic replies like MisterMcGee over here.

Anyway, the hair in your second pic is DEFINITELY the WAY TO GO. The first one just looks....I don't know....not as well groomed.

Have you thought about highlights? I don't know which color would suit you because I can't see your face and body but I bet a saloon could give you some great tips on the hair color/highlights.

Go to a SALOON, not a barbershop. Saloons are more professional and have a creative eye to look for things that would suit you.

Also, do you have any facial hair?
 

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The Bat said:
Yo scribblec,

Stop wasting your 10 posts on idiotic replies like MisterMcGee over here.

Anyway, the hair in your second pic is DEFINITELY the WAY TO GO. The first one just looks....I don't know....not as well groomed.

Have you thought about highlights? I don't know which color would suit you because I can't see your face and body but I bet a saloon could give you some great tips on the hair color/highlights.

Go to a SALOON, not a barbershop. Saloons are more professional and have a creative eye to look for things that would suit you.

Also, do you have any facial hair?
yea it definatly looks messed cos its long thick and i just jumped out the shower when i took it, ive considered highlights but i dont think i would be able to pull them off, and at the moment i do have facial hair around my mouth in a sort of box shape that also isnt well groomed atm, but tomorow i might just go visit a saloon, what do you recomend with the facial hair? i can pretty much grow a full beard.

but the saloon thing might turn out to be quite expensive which is why i wanted advice here and then to go to the barbers, i was thinking of getting a fade on the sides spikes up top and a fringe to the side. but my student loan will come in on new years eve so maybe salon might be the way to go then?
 

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If money is a problem, then forget the saloons. I'd just go get a fade on the sides at the barber and keep the top spiked. And don't spend the money from your loan on saloons. Saloon isn't AS big a deal as paying back the loan itself is.

As far as facial hair, try growing a goatee, a trimmed beard that accentuates your jawline (kinda like this guys, but add a goatee and it looks awesome: http://farm1.static.flickr.com/23/34936892_b4e2f70232.jpg?v=1126630151), etc.

Use a trimmer to trim your facial hair. You got to keep that $hit clean and groomed because unclean and ungroomed facial hair is a major turn off. Makes you look lazy for not being able to take care of yourself.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
Go to a hair salon. This is sosuave.
You're a joke. Fvck off from this forum.

To the OP -

The first style is OK, its normal, its average. It looks decent though.

The second is a bit more outgoing, more hip, more youthful.
 

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hah, to say this forum isn't to do with pulling girls is either naive or just kidding yourself.

Your second pic, that hairstyle is pretty cool, and masculine as well.

I was gonna suggest similar to Bat, some facial hair to go with that hairstyle looks cool. That pic he Bat posted is cool.

There's also semi-long and long hairstyles as well, but I guess you've already eliminated these (as in you know that short looks better on you). In my case when I was younger (like from very young all the way to 17) I had normal length guy hair (short basically). I always knew it didn't suit me but I just assumed I wasn't particularly good looking. When I was 17 I grew my hair out a fair bit into a "semi-long" kinda style...like an indie hair cut. Like the lad on the left..

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/47/111231826_78a36497c8.jpg

Just a word that what you've always had your whole life just by default (in my case..) isn't always what suits you best. I didn't think much of my looks until I grew my hair a lot longer, and I've gotten better looking every year since then.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The 80's? What?

LOL...It's still good today man. I like it. This decade sucks anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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