Hey, new guy here, hoping for some feedback!
I'm actually fairly clued up about the game, I don't know technical terms and any shorthand but the most important thing is I know the ground rules.
Now let me tell you how I pretty much broke them and messed it up, so you can confirm to me that I should just next this person.
I'm a student, often described as fairly attractive and have had some attractive girlfriends/hook ups in the past.
I kind of had a weird attraction to someone, who'm to put it bluntly is not exactly traditionally attractive. It should have been a walk in the park to be honest but I messed up.
On a night out, I made out with her for half the night. Obviously drink was involved so our inhibitions were....gone.
Then I left it, a couple of days later sent her a playful message about how it was a fun night to which she replied in the same manner. I don't believe in talk for the sake of talk so to be a challange I left the convo there after only a couple of messages.
Then it appeared that an old flame got back in contact with her....grrr...so for a couple of weeks her interest and mind would have been entirely with him. Though it then seemed that she decided against re connecting with the guy as he was an idiot. So back to square one.
Now it all goes wrong. Drunk off my face, I get told by my female friend that the girl is wondering why I am not showing her any attention...so half way through the night I approach.
Gun-ho and drunk as a skunk. I basically make out with her for a bit then tell her I'm really interested and think she's really interesting.....ouch. I can see the attraction drain in her eyes before me but my drunk self is in charge now...my rational self screaming from the inside.
So at the end of the night, for some reason she's ok with me walking her home. When we arrive, she says I can come in for a drink or something but she's going to sleep.....grrr.....now I know from a friend this girl has had some bad sexual experience and isn't exactly open to just pounding new guys without a bit of trust first...so I kind of get where she is coming from but my drunk self is in charge and I persist to make out with her in the hallway, after a few seconds she begins to tell me to go home...so after a bit of convincing I leave.
About three days later I drop her a message askin if she wants to go for a drink....partly so she didn't feel like I was just trying to lay her so she wouldn't associate me with the many guys that could end up being yet another bad sexual experience.
No reply, that was about two weeks ago. Obviously I haven't made any contact with her since then....self respect thing, you know how it is.
Oh and one more thing. She lives NEXT DOOR LOL!
Ok, let's hear it guys. Many thanls.
I'm actually fairly clued up about the game, I don't know technical terms and any shorthand but the most important thing is I know the ground rules.
Now let me tell you how I pretty much broke them and messed it up, so you can confirm to me that I should just next this person.
I'm a student, often described as fairly attractive and have had some attractive girlfriends/hook ups in the past.
I kind of had a weird attraction to someone, who'm to put it bluntly is not exactly traditionally attractive. It should have been a walk in the park to be honest but I messed up.
On a night out, I made out with her for half the night. Obviously drink was involved so our inhibitions were....gone.
Then I left it, a couple of days later sent her a playful message about how it was a fun night to which she replied in the same manner. I don't believe in talk for the sake of talk so to be a challange I left the convo there after only a couple of messages.
Then it appeared that an old flame got back in contact with her....grrr...so for a couple of weeks her interest and mind would have been entirely with him. Though it then seemed that she decided against re connecting with the guy as he was an idiot. So back to square one.
Now it all goes wrong. Drunk off my face, I get told by my female friend that the girl is wondering why I am not showing her any attention...so half way through the night I approach.
Gun-ho and drunk as a skunk. I basically make out with her for a bit then tell her I'm really interested and think she's really interesting.....ouch. I can see the attraction drain in her eyes before me but my drunk self is in charge now...my rational self screaming from the inside.
So at the end of the night, for some reason she's ok with me walking her home. When we arrive, she says I can come in for a drink or something but she's going to sleep.....grrr.....now I know from a friend this girl has had some bad sexual experience and isn't exactly open to just pounding new guys without a bit of trust first...so I kind of get where she is coming from but my drunk self is in charge and I persist to make out with her in the hallway, after a few seconds she begins to tell me to go home...so after a bit of convincing I leave.
About three days later I drop her a message askin if she wants to go for a drink....partly so she didn't feel like I was just trying to lay her so she wouldn't associate me with the many guys that could end up being yet another bad sexual experience.
No reply, that was about two weeks ago. Obviously I haven't made any contact with her since then....self respect thing, you know how it is.
Oh and one more thing. She lives NEXT DOOR LOL!
Ok, let's hear it guys. Many thanls.
