"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KoalaKing

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I can't believe how damn NAIVE and GULLABLE that most of you people are, I have been around way too long to fall for this, I would much rather read about a guys true life experience than some teenagers fantasy that has been thought up in his own head.

You guys would believe anything that was written on these threads because you hope that this can happen in your own lives.

As the former Indian Guru of the Orange People "Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh" once said "If you tell people to do what they want to do and say what they want to hear they will believe you because you are telling them the ways to the dream of which they desperately desire to attain", how true this is.

There are many things that you can learn and do to attract hot babes to you, but this is bordering on the rediculous.

This is just like myself reading my very own formerly teenage fantasies, I used to tell everyone all of this when I was a 15 year old high school student and many people were stupid enough to believe what I was telling them, at least I can understand why some sex starved young guy would be writting this, I was once this sad myself. :mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mission

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Does anybody here ever consider that there are trolls that make up stories...

--Mission
 

Dannyrt34

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If you don't believe anybody here, than why are you here? Thanks to those who enjoyed hearing about my pickup. I don't really care if you don't believe me though, because I still know what's going on with my life and where I stand with picking up girls. When I'm going out with the HB I only DREAMED of having, do you think it would upset me that some DJ's don't believe the stories I tell.

To be honest, it's only because of certain people that these boards are the way that they are. This board is to discuss MEETING WOMEN, it is not for those who are just here to flame those that they THINK are making something up. I can't even comprehend WHY some people on here might make something up. Where would that get you anyway? I personally think they do it for attention. But I still don't understand why it makes a difference if you get lots of attention from other people online that you really don't even know.

I post on here for the fellow DJ's who are really here for the RIGHT reasons. The ones that actually give quality advice, and write REAL field reports and pickups. (I think if you use common sense you can really tell which ones are fake). And last but not least, the ones that are here to learn the game.

So if you are NOT one of the DJ's who are REAL, don't post on any of my threads, if you really think I'm lying than just ignore me, all you tend to do is change the subject from meeting women, to who's fibbing and who's not. Get over it.

That being said I'd like to get back on the subject and back to the REAL opinions, and problems, and anything that may actually be HELPFUL.
 

KoalaKing

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I am twice your age and I know which guys are for real and which ones are not, I don't trust the younger ones stories, to me the older guys seem a lot more believable.

I have PRAISED many posts that I have read on the SO SUAVE website and have been CRITICAL of the posts that I didn't feel were for real.

If you read what I write on other threads you will realize that I am not a full on NEGATIVE minded guy and that I have PRAISED many of the posts that I veiwed as being VALUABLE and POSITIVE in my own personal DJ experience.

I wish you all the very best in your SARGING days. :D
 

Boschy

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Hmmm nice work, although she was obviously already interested. That's half the battle. You just need to avoid stuffing it up on the approach, which you handled well. I wonder how many other babes have been secretly lusting after you? :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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