"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok Guy's. The other Day I was on the train and I saw this Hb 9.5 she was between 23-27 and I'm 18. She was alone, she seemed approachable. I was waiting for the oppurtunity when the seat next to her was empty so I can go over there and talk to her. Three times during the train ride her seat was empty and I told myself I was gonna go over there to talk to her but I wussed out. I hate myself for that. I felt like that was an oppurtunity sent from the heavens that I passed by. I didnt matter If she gave me a number or not , its just the fact of actually being a man and working on my game.

Sooo This experience forced me to make a drastic and immediate change in my life. Starting Tom. im gonna talk to any girl that I can find. I'm gonna work on my CF, my charm, wit, smile, and overall demeanor.

I realized a closed mouth don't get fed.....and im hungry.

I'm a keep track of 50 approaches for the month of August.

So plz. comment and give me advice and any constructive criticism and support Would be Greatly appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hope this "missed opportunity" will make you bolder. Best of luck! Keep us informed.
 
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Approach 1: So I was sitting on the train and the next stop this girl that went to my high school came on. She was a year behind me but we never spoke or anything I'm not gonna lie I went from the 3 second rule to the 3 minute rule, but i finally did speak to her.

Monkey "hey you went to School XYZ"
Hb 8 : Yea
Monkey : Do you remember me ?,
Hb 8: no
Monkey: *Acting as if i was hurt* I remember you !
Hb 8: sorry
Monkey: So how was ya last year in school any drama happen?
HB 8: No, everything was fine

Then she had to get off two stops after she got on...

I know its nothing spectacular but its a start I guess..some insight plz.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Approach 2

So I was on the train again and this girl walks on the train and sits down in a two seater by herself.

I got up and sat right next to her. She smiled knowing what was about to happen. I was so nervous, I didnt talk very clear, and I simply said to her

"Hey im about to get off at the next stop but i saw you was cute and I didnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to get to know you." I wasnt that smooth, and i stuttered a little bit.

She said You can have my name and my number, and how she dosent really give it out to guys but she thought I was cute and also brave for what I did.

I cant believe i got her number, I told her I seen her the other day and she gave me one of those weird stalker looks, I stumbled and wasnt that confident. I'm suprised she responded well to me.

Commentzz.
 
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