"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Million Variables

SmooveMooves

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Its been a while, you went through some **** with a crazy b1tch, you're fresh out, you frog splash back into the game.

You take heed of all the advice, you know to spin plates, you know to have confidence, and you know not to get attached.

You feel unstoppable, your game is on point, you can't lose.

You run into this HB9-.....err I'll just say she's really attractive. People on this board seem to think really attractive girls don't exist.

You figure, "perfect, heres my chance, I can't possibly fvck up. I'm ready.

You guys go on a a date, it goes splendid. You Kino, she's all over you can feel it. You feel it in your soul she wants the D.

You take her home, you know you can f-close, but you choose not to. You make her crave the d1ck. You make out, she's soaked, you tell her you have to go, she pleas, you leave anyway sending her hamster in ultimate malfunction, the sexual tension is + 25 maxing out at a hundred. You know the next time the sex will be outlandish.

She shoots you a text "hey I had an amazing night, can't wait til' the next time I see you" You reply " ;)"

Three days pass, its time to strike, you call her up, somethings changed, she's not as high energy as before she seems to have lost interest, you invite her to your crib for a movie, she accepts, but seems iffy.

Friday comes, she doesn't hit you up, she flakes.

You begin to analyze, you pick apart your entire date. You contemplate "maybe I showed to much Kino. Maybe I said to much"

You hop on the double S, its no help, they all tell you you're outcome dependent and to spin plates. They're correct, but your brain wants to know exactly why you failed.


Truth is, you can game a girl perfectly, do everything textbook & still lose. We gotta realize that sometimes things are just out of our control and they're a million variables that could play into why she feigned away.

This story was me and I couldn't put together what happened, I was angry, upset, wtf I thought to myself. There's no way she could've faked that interest.

Surely enough in two weeks she hmu, her parents had been in a car accident

She was to emotionally distraught to do anything.

My ego was happy but then that made me think.

Anything could've happened. She couldve not been over an ex. she couldve been depressed etc. I'm in no way advocating making excuses

We have to realize though, some things are just plain out of our control

So be wary that there's only so much you can control, that being your Game & decisions. The rest is on her. If she misses out on greatness, so be it.


-Smoove
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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