thefonz
Master Don Juan
There's so much information on this site that it can overwhelming to digest it all just by reading it. Yes it's true, you need to get out into the field 80% of the time and be reading 20% of the time. There's a reason you need to do more interacting with women than reading, and obviously it's because personal experience is king. But I've come up with a method to not get distracted with so many ideas floating around
So here's one way to go about making this information stick:
Take one piece of information and focus on that when you're talking to girls. It's kind of hard to focus on more than one thing at a time unless you're in a really upbeat/happy state. So for newbies and AFC's alike you're best bet is a step by step process of learning by living. Since the most important, and first step in becoming a DJ is to GO TALK TO GIRLS you want to start with a motivational factoid like:
Women love to be approached, even if you're nervous they will stick around as long as you try.
For the next few days think about this advice (or one of your own device that you come across on sosuave) and nothing else. Now, GO TALK TO GIRLS, several girls until you know this fact to be true. There, you now have experienced that tip and have reference. Your nervous but you're hanging in there and getting through the approach, she's not leaving despite your nervousness. It's not true because you read it, it's true because you've lived it. Your confidence is up and you've gained experience. Now, move on to another tip or idea (one of your choice):
Be a man of humor, girls love it
Focus on being funny (not clown funny, witty/happy funny) and TALK TO GIRLS IN THIS MINDSET. You're talking to her, she's smiling and laughing and was sad to see you leave her boring existance. You now know being funny gets girls. Move on to the next one ie.
Girls are horny and sexual creatures, moreso than men are
(or one of your choice): Now, GET IN THE FIELD with this mindset and go talk to girls. When you're talking to girls in this mindset you'll notice much more how sexual they are. You may not have noticed this before. They'll start smiling more, maybe look up and down at you're body and you'll think, "God, do girls have any shame? It's so obvious she wants me?" Do this several times with women you approach or deal with in your daily life until you realize the truth of this statement.....There, internalized. You're now more confident and experienced with sosuave facts than you were 2 weeks ago. You didn't just sit at the compueter read it and go, "Wow, that's great. I should use that.....wait a minute, what's this other one? Oh that's good, I'll use that too!" You've avoided letting this information fade into oblivion by focusing on advice and USING IT IN THE FIELD.
You've heard it many times, the road to DJism is long. And depending on how much you want to learn it takes time for this stuff to sink in. I also cannot underestimate the need for utilizing momentum. You must KEEP GOING once you get positive results from this method.
Use it or loose it.
So here's one way to go about making this information stick:
Take one piece of information and focus on that when you're talking to girls. It's kind of hard to focus on more than one thing at a time unless you're in a really upbeat/happy state. So for newbies and AFC's alike you're best bet is a step by step process of learning by living. Since the most important, and first step in becoming a DJ is to GO TALK TO GIRLS you want to start with a motivational factoid like:
Women love to be approached, even if you're nervous they will stick around as long as you try.
For the next few days think about this advice (or one of your own device that you come across on sosuave) and nothing else. Now, GO TALK TO GIRLS, several girls until you know this fact to be true. There, you now have experienced that tip and have reference. Your nervous but you're hanging in there and getting through the approach, she's not leaving despite your nervousness. It's not true because you read it, it's true because you've lived it. Your confidence is up and you've gained experience. Now, move on to another tip or idea (one of your choice):
Be a man of humor, girls love it
Focus on being funny (not clown funny, witty/happy funny) and TALK TO GIRLS IN THIS MINDSET. You're talking to her, she's smiling and laughing and was sad to see you leave her boring existance. You now know being funny gets girls. Move on to the next one ie.
Girls are horny and sexual creatures, moreso than men are
(or one of your choice): Now, GET IN THE FIELD with this mindset and go talk to girls. When you're talking to girls in this mindset you'll notice much more how sexual they are. You may not have noticed this before. They'll start smiling more, maybe look up and down at you're body and you'll think, "God, do girls have any shame? It's so obvious she wants me?" Do this several times with women you approach or deal with in your daily life until you realize the truth of this statement.....There, internalized. You're now more confident and experienced with sosuave facts than you were 2 weeks ago. You didn't just sit at the compueter read it and go, "Wow, that's great. I should use that.....wait a minute, what's this other one? Oh that's good, I'll use that too!" You've avoided letting this information fade into oblivion by focusing on advice and USING IT IN THE FIELD.
You've heard it many times, the road to DJism is long. And depending on how much you want to learn it takes time for this stuff to sink in. I also cannot underestimate the need for utilizing momentum. You must KEEP GOING once you get positive results from this method.
Use it or loose it.