"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A message to DJ'S 50+ - scaramouche etc

TonyBaloney

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Dear Scaramouche and company ;)

Great to always see you dispensing wise words.

As with any great civilization, we here at SS listen admiringly to our elders with alot of respect.

It would be interesting to have some biography from you guys about the road you have taken, some of the twists and turns, and the women within the journey.

Your humble junior,

Tonybaloney
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dear Tony,
Your kind words flow over me like honey over sugar....you are too kind to us old buffers...look the years make people old for sure,but not necessarily wise...Your request that we jot down our life stories is a quaint idea,but a bit tricky....Just reflect Tony,that there are guys on here who write 10 paragraphs on how they spent their afternoon.....Given that anything past half a dozen paragraphs starts to tax the concentration of most of us,to expect a Man like me who started his svexual experience at twelve years old,to write down 56 years of svexual adventures in a single lucid post,does present a few problems...but actually there is an older DJ on this site,one at least...I hope I have not offended your well intentioned nature you seem like a good bloke!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Tony,
Your kind words flow over me like honey over sugar....you are too kind to us old buffers...look the years make people old for sure,but not necessarily wise...Your request that we jot down our life stories is a quaint idea,but a bit tricky....Just reflect Tony,that there are guys on here who write 10 paragraphs on how they spent their afternoon.....Given that anything past half a dozen paragraphs starts to tax the concentration of most of us,to expect a Man like me who started his svexual experience at twelve years old,to write down 56 years of svexual adventures in a single lucid post,does present a few problems...but actually there is an older DJ on this site,one at least...I hope I have not offended your well intentioned nature you seem like a good bloke!
Dear Scaramouche,

Fair play, or should I say Fair `Dinkum`;0 to you!

Thats a really reasonable explanation, and for all of my wanton ways, I shall no doubt give the same account when the time comes.

Your probably looking to emulate Les Colley, that grand old Australian miner who fathered a child at 91 with his young Sri Lankan bride.

Good on you Scaramouche, keep the plates spinning, the beer Ice cold and the old pecker standing to the attention.

All the best,

Tony
 

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DearTony,
Thanks for that mate.....Never heard of Les Colley before,found it all quite fascinating.....The old Bathbun lived to get his telegram from our Queen...Made his Century then bowled out....But the point is there for all to see,I passionately believe that regular Svex fools the body into thinking it is young...more Svex more often!
 
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