Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a master plan - mind games

fast_n_furious

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well dear crank it up, i dont want to be offensive, all i will say is that, there are some people, who after they are 1-0 down, still win 2-1, but anyways, i am 1-1 already, and i am playing a game, where i have nothing to loose, cause i have no long term expectations from the girl anyways, and what she did for a lift, did me no harm at all, but i still beleieve if u were in my spot, u would have been much more hurt than i would have been....i dont take life so seriously, as the bible tought:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what she did for a lift did you no harm at all? Dude, she played you for a fool, she had you drive her around in your car so her boyfriend who didn't give a crap about her before, would get jealous and come running back. Which he did, and then she promptly dumped you... so props to the girl for controlling both you and her boyfriend.

Then to top it off, you had to punk out of the fight with her boyfriend by having your big brother or cousin step in for you? And let's not forget about the secret tapes, lol. Dude, you're killing me.

Now it seems that her boyfriend is treating her like crap again and he needs another lesson about how desireable she is to other men. Now where can she find a stupid fish that will swallow her bait? Here's a clue, look in the mirror.
 

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i will continue your story where u left it, her bf is ignoring her again and she again needs a lift so she is coming back to me, for that she will need another date with me, on the first date, i did enuf wid her in the car, on the second i will go 5 steps further, after doing it, i will dump her, then her bf will listen to the tapes, he will dump her, so basically she is left with no one, so my dear negative thinker, its high time u start thinking on positive lines.
 

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what did you do on the car? something sexy? you brought it on?


'cause if you didnt yet...






BRING IT ON
 

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STORY CONTINUED
hey tactic, first date was pretty good, and there was a lot of physical touching which took place between us, lip kissing and smooching was part of it, and considering it is delhi, that was more than what you could expect on your first date.
now mr. negative thinker, i would tell u how the story is shaping up, she called me up today about 9 times and i didnt pick up, she sent a msg saying" pls pick up, i need u, i am missing u", i picked up after a few more missed calls, and she begged me to meet her tomm. , she also said her bf hasn't called her from the last 3 days, fine, may be she again wants to show him that she can get another guy, but like u suggested me, i didnt run away from her, i taught her a lesson, she actually wanted a lift in front of her bf, and got exactly the oppsite, when she said her bf hasnt called her up, i said, " ok u dont worry, i will call him up and tell him u r missing him, she was lyk pls dont do this, so i said, well i am ur frnd and as a frnd its my duty to see you guys have no misunderstandings, so i called up the guy and told him, that she is really missing u, she wants to talk to u, and if its because of me, pls call her up. she was so furious that she cut the phone, while i was still talking to her bf, then she called me back after 2 hrs and said " what u did was not right, but then i said i thought it would help you, " obv she couldn't blame me for it, but it affected her rep., instead of getting a lift, her bf would feel she is deseperate, and the next move will be sending her bf an indirect signal that "its high time u leave her", and i have a pretty solid plan for it.
btw mr. negative thinker i just noticed you are 49, and if you need these forums at 49, i can imagine the reason for your attitude, and can guess how many girls you have slept with. just a request -- " pls dont tell people to back off, if you cant give worty suggestions, better not reply, we are here to win, and to make those girls like us, who dont, not to listen, "she doesn't like you, so move on and look for someone else", we are here to remove the nt from doesnt, so pls dont send negative signals to people who want weapons and ideas to changes NO's into YES'es ", hope this advice helps you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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