"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A Manly beard or a clean-shaven babyface???

java01

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I just whant some insight on fellow juaners on perspective of a Hairy-face Vs Baby-face.

I personaly prefer unshaven as it gives me the more 'manly' brute look, i let my beard and moustache grow, and when i think it's a bit too long and messy, i get out the electric hair cutters and trim to a desirable length (i know their are pobably traditional beard/moustache trimer's out there, and if their is, let me know), so then i get a clean even finish.

Anyway, just leave a post and fill it in with your insights.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personally, not saying I'm a Don Juan at all per say. I prefer to have the 5'oclock shadow look.

The baby face look doesn't seem to attract me as many woman that glance.

I bought a Norelco Trimming kit at bestbuy for $30. Best $30 i've spent! I have it two years and it still works great. I'd highly recommend grabbing one.

Lately I've been doing the Abraham look, allthough I'm starting to dislike it myself, though woman that I currently see have commented how they like it on me, better than my baby face or unshaved.

http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage...g+kit&lp=5&type=product&cp=1&id=1212796430895
 

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i dunno man, the clean shaven tends to take like 3 years off my look which I enjoy given my current quarter life crisis
 

Five To One

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Completely depends on the guy.

You read that women profer a clean shaven man but I would take that as a grain of salt.

Just something you need to figure out with trial and error
 

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it totally dependson the guy. some guys look good with facial hairs, others look messy/dirty/creepy..

the same applies if you are trying to grow your hair out. some guys look very nice with long hair, while others look like hippies.

same with your haircuts and everything else. it depends on the shape of your face, your weight, the style you own, etc etc.

for example, if you are preppy and tend to wear a lot of polo's and stuff like that, then it would totally kill your style if you were to have some gross looking 'manly' beard.

however if you drive a harley and you have a clean shaven baby-face, that may make you look weak in the biker groups.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Up to you, all the women i've spoken/dated/slept with etc always liked clean shaven.

Try both out and see what happens.
 

tsmith2334

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Neither.

5 O'clock shadow is the way to go. Switch it up though. Shave clean every now and then. Let it grow a little longer at times too.

But in genral, keep a light (2-4 days growth), nicely trimmed beard. That's what I do. It's EASILY the best option.

Look at those alpha male, manly looking models you see in ads. A lot have neatly trimmed 5 o'clock shadows. It just looks so undeniably good.

Goatee can work pretty well too but not on everyone.
 
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