"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Man Who Is Playing Games - Or Maybe Just a *****

Donnie Darko

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5string said:
NO NO NO! 1)Hit the salon 2)Spin more plates 3)Read The Book of Pook :D
NO! NO! NO!

1. Go on a permanent diet.
2. Hit the gym.
3. Get plastic surgery.
4. Hit the salon.
5. Spin more plates.
6. Read the Book of Pook.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Die Hard

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This guy is just shy and doesn't know what to do with his sexuality. You need to do everything for him, EVERYTHING. And don't be insulted, feel insecure, or feel rejected when he doesn't take the initiative (like in the pool). It's not that he doesn't want you, he's just shy/insecure/nervous and doesn't know what to do, so you have to do everything for him.

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=13316&highlight=obvious+missed

All the situations described in that thread are examplary. The guy absolutely wants the girl, he just doesn't know how to handle the situation.

Just force yourself onto him lol.
 

jafyk

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playerette said:
To each their own opinion.

Whats wrong with going after for someone for sex? That is something I am not denying.
Then just F'ing tell him you wanna F. If you don't F him is he the last guy on earth? Not every guys gets the signals you ladies send because women and men think differently. I'd respect you if you let him know you just want an ONS and not making him think you want more just so you can F and dump him.
 
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jafyk said:
Then just F'ing tell him you wanna F. If you don't F him is he the last guy on earth? Not every guys gets the signals you ladies send because women and men think differently. I'd respect you if you let him know you just want an ONS and not making him think you want more just so you can F and dump him.
To be fair to the girl, she has done everything she possibly can to inform this lad that she wants to ride his glowstick.

I bet the OP £100 that he is a virgin and if she does f*ck him, and he is expecting more or becomes attached, we'll have yet another young fella here balling his eyes out into his wireless keybord.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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