"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Man vs. A Boy

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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there are things missing thoe.
 
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This is matrix stuff. Who defines what a man is? "What a man is" has no meaning until people try to define it. Then you have different groups that flood in to create a mass buy-in on a definition based upon their agenda. To influence behavior. Just because their are collective beliefs out there doesn't exactly makes things true.

Here, I'll do one:

A real man has many different children from many different women thus fulfilling his biological imperative. That's what a man was designed for.

Do you agree or not? If you don't, why don't you? If we were born on a desert island with a small community and I taught this to you since birth you sure would. You would think it totally normal and anything else weird.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Written by a chick, for chicks. And after all of those awesome 11 points of light, make no mistake, she'll still fück the first bad ass that'll make her taco tingle.
 

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well to be fair she said if she is a girl or woman same way a boy and man, thing is diferent from the normal talk saying a woman mature first then mens, truth is woman never mature, they will always be girls so we do what need to be done.

this kind of msg is always posted by woman when the guy she was dating, didn't want her anymore or they had a fight, so the problems is sure the guy who is imature not her, woman will never admit they are wrong so all wrongs in the world is the men who get the blame. and yes woman say she will want a men, but when a men come she make him her friend, when a boy comes she want to open her legs
 

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I find a woman telling men how to be men is presumptuous at best and damaging at worse. Lets be honest here, we have had 40 plus years of it and it turns out it was an absolute disaster letting women define and direct manhood.

This here has the usual taint of unremarkable chick schlock with smatterings of blue pill "man up" shaming here and there. To be fair it's not all crap the rest is no brainer common sense type stuff, but it's all nullified by the "man up and plan for that family" rubbish. A little too late for that sinking ship in this current social climate don't you think?

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Written by a chick, for chicks. And after all of those awesome 11 points of light, make no mistake, she'll still fück the first bad ass that'll make her taco tingle.
Thread winner. :D Hypergamy don't give a fvck about a mans "sense of nobility" and sensible beta provisioning, not until she's post wall anyway and by that stage no man worth a damn gives a rats ass what she wants.
 

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I'm a man and I do not endorse any of this article. Reading it oozed mangina.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is not good definition of man, it is more her thinking from her relationships experience and trying to write it as rules .
Where are Brave, Courage, Honer , Pride ,etc ?
 
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