Perhaps not coincidentally, later that night she got undressed and let me take her panties off for the first time. I remember taking them off as slowly as possible, just to dramatize the fact that she was letting me. She had taken me to the brink several times but would stop me. That was our 5th night in bed together and we finally had sex.Warrior74 said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"A Man is Only as Faithful as His Options"
- Thread starter sstype
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I dont even consider to cheat on my gf simply because she does her best to make me happy ,she's goodlooking and never say no.
If she was one of those obnoxious women who made nagging her life mission I would my best to fvck as many women as possible,I would actively seek other women.
I think every man has an animal instinct that ask for violence,looting,rape and conquer but at the same time we have an emphatic and moral side that women dont have.
There are no such things as defining a woman by her words in fact, any guy who would dare to flake to a meeting would be considered less than a sh1t.
And no man would try his best to steal any possible coin and dignity from his ex wife(having her no fault for the divorce) instead of finding a correct agreement.
If she was one of those obnoxious women who made nagging her life mission I would my best to fvck as many women as possible,I would actively seek other women.
I think every man has an animal instinct that ask for violence,looting,rape and conquer but at the same time we have an emphatic and moral side that women dont have.
There are no such things as defining a woman by her words in fact, any guy who would dare to flake to a meeting would be considered less than a sh1t.
And no man would try his best to steal any possible coin and dignity from his ex wife(having her no fault for the divorce) instead of finding a correct agreement.
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girls have more options? why? men are pansys.
Albatross953
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I know I'm new here so maybe not my place but you guys are talking about some bad bad stuff here. Screws up peoples lives.
I had three chances, real chances while I was married - never did. Then she did. So here I am, teach me to get back out there will you?
I had three chances, real chances while I was married - never did. Then she did. So here I am, teach me to get back out there will you?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Some very interesting responses here, especially by sstype.
I'm in a LTR at the moment and I'd be lying if I said I have had no temptations. After nearly 3 years neither of us have drifted even once. My partner and I are very open, and we are very honest with each other-- to the point where she is able to ask me if i thought so and so was attractive and I'd give her an honest answer. This is a topic I will discuss with her in the near future.
I think many problems that people have is their lack of social boundaries and the word "privacy" in whilst in a committed relationship. If you are in a committed relationship these are things that must be discussed. Privacy is a word often thrown around by people who have something to hide, or want to maintain an "escape route" from their partner. There is a difference between "i'm going to take a sh*t, give me some privacy" and "No you can't see my emails, give me privacy". I'm not suggesting that snooping around is something you should do, but your email inbox should not be off limits or some sort of secret.
Some people are fine with having friends of the opposite sex. While this not wrong, there should be an understanding that hanging alone or with a group of the opposite sex is probably not something you should be doing. Actively searching for friends of the opp sex and allowing yourself to be open to approaches or sending signals of interest (or returning them) is definitely feeding temptations.
Having said that, if a relationship is going well then no amount of temptation by any level of attractiveness should be able to lead a man or woman to infidelity. A real man who is with a real woman should be able to construct simply thought out defenses to protect the otherwise successful relationship against intruders. So I do not agree with your quote. As long as I trust my woman, no amount of temptation would sway me---and many temptations would not come our way by means of our "defenses"
@sstype : those people would be successful whether or not they cheated. Tiger Woods would still be a pro golfer whether he was single or had been faithful to his wife. These "top" men are in those positions for reasons beyond their ability to fight temptation. Society is not rewarding them based on their ability to commit to a relationship. Interesting point of view nonetheless.
I'm in a LTR at the moment and I'd be lying if I said I have had no temptations. After nearly 3 years neither of us have drifted even once. My partner and I are very open, and we are very honest with each other-- to the point where she is able to ask me if i thought so and so was attractive and I'd give her an honest answer. This is a topic I will discuss with her in the near future.
I think many problems that people have is their lack of social boundaries and the word "privacy" in whilst in a committed relationship. If you are in a committed relationship these are things that must be discussed. Privacy is a word often thrown around by people who have something to hide, or want to maintain an "escape route" from their partner. There is a difference between "i'm going to take a sh*t, give me some privacy" and "No you can't see my emails, give me privacy". I'm not suggesting that snooping around is something you should do, but your email inbox should not be off limits or some sort of secret.
Some people are fine with having friends of the opposite sex. While this not wrong, there should be an understanding that hanging alone or with a group of the opposite sex is probably not something you should be doing. Actively searching for friends of the opp sex and allowing yourself to be open to approaches or sending signals of interest (or returning them) is definitely feeding temptations.
Having said that, if a relationship is going well then no amount of temptation by any level of attractiveness should be able to lead a man or woman to infidelity. A real man who is with a real woman should be able to construct simply thought out defenses to protect the otherwise successful relationship against intruders. So I do not agree with your quote. As long as I trust my woman, no amount of temptation would sway me---and many temptations would not come our way by means of our "defenses"
@sstype : those people would be successful whether or not they cheated. Tiger Woods would still be a pro golfer whether he was single or had been faithful to his wife. These "top" men are in those positions for reasons beyond their ability to fight temptation. Society is not rewarding them based on their ability to commit to a relationship. Interesting point of view nonetheless.