A lot of you guys are too serious

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I see a lot of people asking for advice about all these women. Not bad, they want to improve themselves. But as mentioned here before, you should let yourself fail. Experience is the best teacher after all. And you all seem so grim and serious when it comes to women. People are still over thinking the game way too much. Relax and ease up. We call it the 'game' for a reason, because the whole thing is supposed to be fun. Just have fun with it. When a girl does something that may bother you or does something that confuses you (it shouldn't confuse you though! You shouldn't care!), just laugh it off and think nothing of it. Or if you want to take action, don't spend more than one minute thinking about the options. Just pick one and follow through with it. Stuff doesn't turn out your way? Oh well, it's just a game after all. You lose one life is like losing one woman. You can always start back over and do it again. That's the fun in it. It wouldn't be fun if it was easy as sh!t.

People of SoSuave, I urge you all to relax and to have fun with everything. Is that not what attracts women to you in the first place? Don't think about what you are going to do, just do it. Even if it means not doing anything. Just have fun watching her reactions and attempts at manipulating you. You are at a grand level of wisdom, an elevated class of enlightenment. You all know that everything she does should be taken with a grain of salt. Just sit back, relax, and watch her game herself even. Whenever you do take a course of action, you just watch in entertainment as she overthinks and over analyzes everything. Just entertain yourself! The focus is on you. The game is fun people, learn to enjoy it, don't get so worked up when you lose either, it isn't the end of the world. The more you play, the better you get. You can't always use cheats and hints over here by asking for advice constantly. That is how you get better. If you are stuck at one particular area and always 'die' there, then you can ask for help or for guidance, like how you would a real game.

Enjoy the game my friends. Enjoy it.

 

[skinnyguy]

I see a lot of people asking for advice about all these women.

That's the problem here. If men would learn to stop thinking about it so much, we'd be better off.

People of SoSuave, I urge you all to relax and to have fun with everything.

Easier said than done, of course. I think most guys take rejections as feedback that they are ugly/beta which in itself is not entirely false. If you were truly attractive to women, you'd get fewer rejections or none at all, and that's a fact.
The solution to this, which I think you're saying, is to stop internalizing it because unhappiness breeds onto itself.

All in all, I agree with you. If we learn to be funny (and have more fun with our guy friends - who truly bring us joy in life) then we'd go through less mental trauma.

 

[VladPatton]

I see a lot of people asking for advice about all these women. Not bad, they want to improve themselves. But as mentioned here before, you should let yourself fail. Experience is the best teacher after all. And you all seem so grim and serious when it comes to women. People are still over thinking the game way too much. Relax and ease up. We call it the 'game' for a reason, because the whole thing is supposed to be fun. Just have fun with it. When a girl does something that may bother you or does something that confuses you (it shouldn't confuse you though! You shouldn't care!), just laugh it off and think nothing of it. Or if you want to take action, don't spend more than one minute thinking about the options. Just pick one and follow through with it. Stuff doesn't turn out your way? Oh well, it's just a game after all. You lose one life is like losing one woman. You can always start back over and do it again. That's the fun in it. It wouldn't be fun if it was easy as sh!t.

People of SoSuave, I urge you all to relax and to have fun with everything. Is that not what attracts women to you in the first place? Don't think about what you are going to do, just do it. Even if it means not doing anything. Just have fun watching her reactions and attempts at manipulating you. You are at a grand level of wisdom, an elevated class of enlightenment. You all know that everything she does should be taken with a grain of salt. Just sit back, relax, and watch her game herself even. Whenever you do take a course of action, you just watch in entertainment as she overthinks and over analyzes everything. Just entertain yourself! The focus is on you. The game is fun people, learn to enjoy it, don't get so worked up when you lose either, it isn't the end of the world. The more you play, the better you get. You can't always use cheats and hints over here by asking for advice constantly. That is how you get better. If you are stuck at one particular area and always 'die' there, then you can ask for help or for guidance, like how you would a real game.

Enjoy the game my friends. Enjoy it.

You, sir, won the internet today. Agreed 115%

 

[logicallefty]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to ImTheDoubleGreatest! again.

 

[backbeat]

yea bro u r so right man dudes r here talkin sh1t about women havin more power an sh1t like poon_king aka playher_man aka rescue _mission aka burroughs aka skip_to_my_lou781 an gettin all pissy like he does about sh1t. jus relax an have fun cuz when ur a man u gots the power an no chic has power over a man. dude know wut im sayin?

 

[Moroder]

OP is right. One thing, though. The reason for most guys including myself to be on SS is bc we do have issues with game, past relationships or women in general. So you are experiencing this from a teacher's viewpoint. You keep on seeing freshmen all the time. Freshmen are insecure, they need to learn, check back in, get confirmation etc. Once they are sophomore or better yet graduated DJs, you will probably not see most of them any more. Those who have internalized and applied game and see if for what it is and don't report any more.

 

[JohnChops]

**** ive been preaching this since day uno. Good stuff brotha. People over complicate everything. Just be ****ing sexual (any sexy and go get it.

 

[Poon King]

Good points OP.

I would say though that you can't fix your person problems by positive THINKING, but rather by positive ACTIONS.

I don't think thinking more positive or more negative is the answer to anything. The answer is always be to be more realistic. Because REALITY is neither "Negative" or "Positive"... it just is what it is. How you choose to interpret it, is up to you.

The man who lives in fantasy land, believing in "Positive Thinking" ends up getting burned by mean old Reality all the time. He thinks he can fly, so he jumps off the Empire State building (Blue Pill). For a few seconds, his "positive thinking" is working.. he is flying! But then mean old reality steps in, in the form of the fast approaching concrete sidewalk, and then spoils all the fun.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Good points OP.

I would say though that you can't fix your person problems by positive THINKING, but rather by positive ACTIONS.

I don't think thinking more positive or more negative is the answer to anything. The answer is always be to be more realistic. Because REALITY is neither "Negative" or "Positive"... it just is what it is. How you choose to interpret it, is up to you.

The man who lives in fantasy land, believing in "Positive Thinking" ends up getting burned by mean old Reality all the time. He thinks he can fly, so he jumps off the Empire State building (Blue Pill). For a few seconds, his "positive thinking" is working.. he is flying! But then mean old reality steps in, in the form of the fast approaching concrete sidewalk, and then spoils all the fun.

I advocate the same. Less thinking, more doing. Sometimes a lot of us become bitter for seeing the game for what it is. I can understand why, but I choose to interpret it positively because I personally know it and understand it better than some others. I can control how I want to deal with it. Because I am in control of myself. And not only that, but I now have a greater insight than I had before. I am a greater person than I once was. This is why I choose to be positive. (And besides, no one likes a negative person. I've been there, and it was foolish. Choose to be positive, choose to be happy! Why would you choose to be bitter or upset when you could interpret something to be something good and something that can make you happy?)

OP is right. One thing, though. The reason for most guys including myself to be on SS is bc we do have issues with game, past relationships or women in general. So you are experiencing this from a teacher's viewpoint. You keep on seeing freshmen all the time. Freshmen are insecure, they need to learn, check back in, get confirmation etc. Once they are sophomore or better yet graduated DJs, you will probably not see most of them any more. Those who have internalized and applied game and see if for what it is and don't report any more.

I love it when new people come here because you can see them flourish into their true self. They are new, so they can be molded into any kind of person. You can see them grow and develop. The basis for everything here is to follow the guidelines given, improve yourself, and choose whatever you want to believe as true or false (making your own game, or inner game. It differs from person to person which is why the individual must choose). When they do this, they are now ready to create their own path and to help create themselves into whatever they want to be. What I love about this is that you can gain many different perspectives about one different issue, so when they have used their intuition to become who they have wanted to be (to become their true self), ALL of their opinions are correct! (Think of Pook or jophil28, they each have different game and play 'the game' differently, yet no matter how [differently] they may handle the situation, they always they always come out on top of it.)
What bothers me here is that it isn't just new people here asking for advice, it's some people who may have been here before, who may have been here already. They haven't utilized the vast amount of knowledges here to their own advantage. They should know the answer(s) to the questions that they are asking. Yet they don't. Maybe it's because they don't want to fail. They haven't let themselves fail because they were too anxious and nervous and scared about the outcome. And maybe that's because they haven't tried to have fun with it all.

 

[Skyline]

Good points OP.

I would say though that you can't fix your person problems by positive THINKING, but rather by positive ACTIONS.

I don't think thinking more positive or more negative is the answer to anything. The answer is always be to be more realistic. Because REALITY is neither "Negative" or "Positive"... it just is what it is. How you choose to interpret it, is up to you.

The man who lives in fantasy land, believing in "Positive Thinking" ends up getting burned by mean old Reality all the time. He thinks he can fly, so he jumps off the Empire State building (Blue Pill). For a few seconds, his "positive thinking" is working.. he is flying! But then mean old reality steps in, in the form of the fast approaching concrete sidewalk, and then spoils all the fun.

Be positive and be real by knowing your place as well as others.

 

[Epimanes]

You can't have a positive outcome with negative energy. So do what gives you positive energy FIRST, get rid of that negative energy, then seek your desired outcome.

Epi