"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A lot of the good ones are taken

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The Golden Rule Is Bullshiit

The Golden Rule Is Bullshiit

You get what you demand, not what you give.

You're using flawed logic and passive aggressive tendencies to say that people should give to you since you gave to them. Do you suck diick cause you like bjs? i SURE hope not. Do you take a dildo up the ass in hopes your girl will let you tap the back door?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Serg897 said:
Hey all,

Im starting a new graduate program this week - lots of cuties at orientation. A large group of us went out to a pub, and I starting chatting with many people.

TOO MANY of the good ones have boyfriends. Its like you need to start having a mental checklist and when they mention "boyfriend", you cross them out. Often I'll meet a women who despite having the boyfriend, I consider interesting and make friends with.

That being said, yesterday I ended up making out with a girl - she was talking sh!t about me all night while she was getting drunk, yet one of my newfound female friends kept telling me "this girl wants to have sex with you". It's always been a sort of love/hate relationship with her. And so eventually yes, I was able to charm her into making out. LOL. But what do I discover? She's got a boyfriend. :crazy:

I have no idea whats going to happen next with that one!

Just a show of hands - how many people here make moves despite the boyfriend stuff?
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You must be new here. Let me sum up 32 years of observations and "game":

Women do whatever the hell they want to in the moment. When the rubber meets the road women are amoral. Period. There is no such thing as a quality or low-quality women. There is only "woman" and their behavior at that given moment. Yes there are aberrations/exceptions to the rule, but most women truly are controlled by their emotions.
 
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