a look from the other side

[spang]

http://spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=28&t=46180

out of curiosity i looked up a feminist forum. it looks like they are doing the same thing we do here, hating on the opposite sex. in this thread we have one dude who sounds like a pus$y beggar confessing that he believes feminism to be right. it seems that all men are rapists and stalkers.
theres also a thread on the nice guy debate...
http://spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=28&t=46231
lot of other stuff on there.
in my search i stumbled upon this comic featuring a response to negging...
http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/pickup_artist.png
i dont see how that was necessary in the comic. the guy didnt really insult her, the point was to get her to talk to him.

ive learned blaming and generalizing will never help me. im trying to figure out whether its really that women are all insane by their nature, or if its only my perception of it. up until yesterday i had not interacted with a girl in 2 months. i made a conversation with her and she didnt show much interest. whenever that happens to me, i feel this irritation, frustration, and depression that comes over me. then i begin to think thoughts like "i hate these stuck up bishes", "they all hate me" or "whats wrong with me". then i had the realization that thoughts are not reality, its my perception of it...its not necessarily how it really is. still, i can make sense of a lot of the issues ive had but women just take the cake.
so anyway, is it men vs women in this bitter war, or is just the way perceive each other?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Women are not sane by nature. They take all their social cues from outside sources and the media has taken advantage of that weakness and pumped up their egos, causing each one to pedastalize herself. They are literally hypnotized by the media and are acting out their herd mentality.

They have lost all ability to reason. There may be a few exceptions, but the actual percentage of women who stick to that script is staggeringly high, higher than 98% to be sure. Almost no woman is unaffected.

You try to interact in a friendly way with girl after girl, and instead of being friendly to you they make you feel like sh!t.

As I see it these days, the only thing you can do is to develop yourself to be the best YOU that you can be, and accept that only a small subset of women are going to be attracted. Men cannot be universally attractive for the most part, the way women can.

I'm a firm believer in the Anti-Dump methodology of learning how to spot when a girl is attracted and only going after them. It works for me. I've never had a flake in my life.

 

[Bushmaster]

Best thing out of that site. A link to http://www.the-niceguy.com/index.php