Doctor Europeo
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My mother just had knee surgery last monday. When Im not at work, Im taking care of her. I took care of my dad before he died but a least everytime he got bad it just happened to be that I had free days at work.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A little vent
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Hope she is doing well, OP.
This is something I recently discussed among friends. How do you think care giving of parents affects our long term relationships? Would you move mom in with you?
This is something I recently discussed among friends. How do you think care giving of parents affects our long term relationships? Would you move mom in with you?
Doctor Europeo
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Thanks. She has highs and lows but she is still recovering. My expectation is that eventually she will be better than she was before surgery, otherwise what was the point of it?
My ltr has been very understanding so far. I was expecting that because Im her first bf and she very into me. More than 4 months together and not a single fight. When we are not in agreement on something, 99% of the time we do things my way.
Move mom in with me? We are living with my sister. My mom owns 50% of the house, my sister owns 25%, and I own the remaining 25%. I know, its nuts.
My ltr has been very understanding so far. I was expecting that because Im her first bf and she very into me. More than 4 months together and not a single fight. When we are not in agreement on something, 99% of the time we do things my way.
Move mom in with me? We are living with my sister. My mom owns 50% of the house, my sister owns 25%, and I own the remaining 25%. I know, its nuts.