“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A little update..

jhonny9546

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Hello friends!
For everyone who knows me here and knows my story, I'd like to give a little update.

I've moved out on my own, and while I'm renting, I'm looking for a house to buy.
I've also been working out consistently for a year now, both with weights and in a group I see at least twice a week.
I'm also continuing to develop my skills, constantly studying to obtain certifications for my career, and I'm trying to meet as many people as possible.

On a personal level, I've changed because I'm making every effort to not "control" others, but to "control" myself and my results.
I've cut several people off my social media list, people who talk behind my back, while continuing to engage with those I feel are trustworthy.

I don't date or go clubbing. Instead, I focus on capitalizing on the opportunities I have with the women I meet through my activities, while occasionally talking to someone outside of them.
Given my age, I typically interact with women who are already in relationships, single mothers.
It's really hard to find single women at this age.
That said, I continue to ask questions and be interested in relationship-related topics, and I try to apply your advice.

In summary, my current focus is on buying my first home and building a solid career/job while staying physically fit and healthy, while also trying to filter for a good woman.

Happy hunting, everyone.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good to hear bro. Stay ambitious!

About the meeting women part; I know you won't like my advice. Perhaps others can and will give more technical feedback.

But imo you're doing fine and perhaps you should be LESS thirsty. And with thirsty I mean thirsty for that " perfect unicorn ". .

You can hold out and believe ( believing is great) that one sweet day you'll meet the perfect woman. But chances are you mightve missed out on some great adventures and ditto experiences by skipping the types of women you described. Relationships apart perhaps.

Be less thirsty, less picky just to get or keep the ball rolling and finally keep focusing on building yourself up and up and up.
 

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Glad to hear your words!
You can hold out and believe ( believing is great) that one sweet day you'll meet the perfect woman. But chances are you mightve missed out on some great adventures and ditto experiences by skipping the types of women you described. Relationships apart perhaps.

Be less thirsty
I'm actually filtering a lot, I do put women in 3 baskets: don't touch, s3x only, relationship material.
It's a hard time to find the s3x only in your thirties, if you aren't the man who's active on social media.
I don't want to f0ck women I know from my circle, like many friends do instead.


Actually finding a good one for a relationship needs some more work and time.. You know..
But I'm open to your advice for what "target" I should look for
 
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