"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A little trick to be aproached by women

Trance

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So this is how it works. I go to a club using an unusuall t-shirt, something that can be an ice breaker for a girl to aproach you.

- I have one that says "I'll have another beer", all fuzzed up seeming like who's reading is drunk. So girls come to me making some coment about me, or just stare in front of me reading it and making a coment with her friends or with me. At that point either they aproach, or if i see them talking about it with friends i aproach and say something funny about it, and just go on from there. Sometimes girls even came to me and offered me some of their drink!! haha

- Other is going to a college party with my college shirt. The girls come to ask if i am from college xpto, and/or if i know X/Y, and it just goes on from there.

These are just some samples, but the point is to create an ice breaker so that girls have to say to you making it seem that they aint trying to PU you, and being cool with coming to talk with you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Peacock out to the nines, baby.

Half the girls will be intimidated by you and the other girls will be intrigued by your attire and the fact that you have the balls to dress as outrageously and outgoing as you.
 

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OMFG GUYS CAN DO THIS TOO!?!?!?



But seriously, distinguishing yourself and creating something to set yourself apart from all the other chumps out there is great. And you can talk about how you got that crazy shirt!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dockta

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hahaha.. i saw a t-shirt on a guy a few days ago.. which read..

REMEBER MY NAME...
COS YOU WILL BE SCREAMING IT...
LATER ON TONIGHT

hahah
 

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Wearing tshirts with little "bar" remarks is not peacocking, its impressing your mates down at the pub. Peacocking is dressing so unique that you get guys and chicks eye balling you and coming up to you to chat.
 

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Originally posted by dockta
hahaha.. i saw a t-shirt on a guy a few days ago.. which read..

REMEBER MY NAME...
COS YOU WILL BE SCREAMING IT...
LATER ON TONIGHT

hahah
Too offensive. Something less offensive and is funny is better.
 
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