"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A little tip on REJECTION.

Tear Gas

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EVERYONE faces rejection at some point or another. Some more than others, but don't take it so hard. It doesn't matter how good looking or smooth you are, everyone faces rejection at one point or another. Never let one *****y or unresponsive girl change your out look on things. Women are VERY fickle and moody. It just might be something as stupid like hair color or she just doesnt like guys that are really buff or skinny guys...don't take it so hard. just brush it off and go hit on some other HB. I can't tell you how many times i felt like i was talking to a wall, but then to walk away and game some other hottie and be getting head at the end of the night. I know soo many guys that let rejection ruin there day/week even MONTHS :cry:

The funny thing is that i might get rejected from some hb7, but then some hb9 would be digging me. It's just the way it goes..YOU CANT GET THEM ALL. Not EVERY girl is attracted to Brad Pitt, but a lot are..keep on sarging boys, keep your head up :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonGorgon said:
If your rejection rate is over 95% its hard to stay positive...LOL
true, but you're supposed to learn from rejections. Look at what you're doing wrong, don't just keep on doing the same routine over and over again. Also try changing up your look a little. See what girls dig and what they dont. FAIL, LEARN, IMPROVE. not FAIL FAIL FAIL x10 :crackup:
 

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Tear Gas said:
true, but you're supposed to learn from rejections. Look at what you're doing wrong, don't just keep on doing the same routine over and over again. Also try changing up your look a little. See what girls dig and what they dont. FAIL, LEARN, IMPROVE. not FAIL FAIL FAIL x10 :crackup:
Dont use anything canned, ever. Mystery killed routines for every DJ in the world with that show, and Style aint too far behind.

Create your own game and your success will improve greatly.
 
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