"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A little tip on approaching

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
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I wish there was a way to completely, I mean COMPLETELY, nullify that stupid feeling we call approach anxiety. Unfortunately you would not have to be human if that were to happen, so we have ways to limit it. There's this one technique that I use to help me approach girls. Basically, when you see a woman or a group of them you want to approach, before you go up to them, just picture yourself going up to them. If they're just standing around and talking to each other, picture yourself being beside them. Picture yourself spitting game on them. It is said that actions can't be reality unless you think it first, so if you picture yourself doing this before you approach, you're more likely to approach them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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