A little story (tell me what I do wrong/right)

[PapiChulo]

I went cougar-hunting in a local pub. I saw 2 official cougars, and the rest were either someone's wives or what not. So, I see that hot pusy, who's not quite a cougar, nor young, maybe 32-35. She is wearing this red "fuk me" dress, and is about an 8-9, but in younger days she would be hotter because she put on some weight here in there, but is still hot enough to give me an instant bonner from just looking at her. I think to myself: look at this tipsy bar slut. Hence no other game around, that's the one I should be bedding tonight. I watched her approach about 5 different plain looking middle-aged men, while I am the only young meat around she needs to be looking at. At this point I though she was just an "attention whhore". I catch her at end asking for a light, give it her and I ask her "to which high school she goes", she laughs and says she's heard it all, but not this one. I get a chit chat going and bullschiting her that I am from Frankfurt vising here, in turn she actually speaks German - very classy, so I still managed to fake it since my German is better. I find out that she rides horses for a living.Well, good enough. At the end she already sobers up- not good- so I approach with some gentle kino and tell her in the ear: "I would let her ride me like a pony; and if she behaves well, I would let her whip me". She laughs, gets all flirty, contemplates and says "thank you darling, but not today". I tell her that she's missing out on some major fun. Rejected, yet this close, if she was still drunk enough, I would be riding her all night long. At the very end she leaves home alone in a taxi. WTF??? I think if I were more experienced with the game, I could totally capitalize on it. Her ego probably did get stroked a great deal.

Please, let me know what I could handle better in such situation.

 

[Scars]

It's hard to say. You may not have done anything wrong. YOU were cougar hunting, it doesn't necessarily mean she wanted young meat.

You could have came off too strong. You made your point very clear and you could have left her feeling belittled and slvtty. We all know that this never really works. We have to make them feel classy and non-wh0rish as possible. Even if they are.

She could had been married. She went out to the bar to loosen up a bit, have a good time. Her eye might had been set on one of the older gents and she wasn't getting her way so she left.

Usually when dealing with "real" cougars, your game plan would had went solid. Usually it's THEM trying to seduce YOU. However, this girl may not had been a cougar at all. I know woman aren't exactly perfect angels, and trust me when I say I have seen plenty of examples of their true ugliness and ways, but is it possible you had mistaken a woman with a little more class than you thought to be a different person than she was? You could had turned her off by being too forward and making yourself too available.

Whatever it may be, don't stress on it. It seems like you have a game plan for cougars that works for you. Right on. It doesn't mean you have to stop. Just know that things don't always go as planned. There's been times where I thought for SURE I was getting a ONS and it never happened. I seemingly played all my cards right. I said all the right things. Used kino. Thought for sure her IL high as a kite and it never went down. It happens to the best of us. You just gotta truck on. There will be plenty of other opportunities. Try not to think about it too much.

Good luck man.

-Scars

 

[PapiChulo]

good stuff.

It's the case of mistaken identity: I rushed to conclude that she was a cougar even though she was not quite fitting the profile (age, motives), but surely acted bold as if she indeed was one, and that she appeared sluttier than she really is. The result was my way-too-direct approach (she probably didn't mind because she was approaching and flirting strongly and sexually with at least 5 men herself).

And on the other hand, she has the setting wrong, because it's a pub, not a sugar-daddy place where people drop $500 a night as it was pretty obvious that she was after older financially set gents.

Also she was a pretty classy sounding woman, which actually surprised me, but aren't the cougars supposed to be classy?

I had to go for it because she was about to leave, it was do or die.

Glad I learned something today.

 

[PapiChulo]

Ha, went out today again and picked up a nice cougar named Brenda, who is 53 - a very yammi mommy with a daughter older than me, and 6 figure income. I talked to her for an hour, when they had to kick us out. Now waiting for her call. Too bad didnt bang her right at the place, even though she was inclined to go I think.
Very fun indeed.