WC2
Master Don Juan
Belive me, there are far more important mistakes men make when it comes to women. But lately it's been brought to my attention that a lot of males have a "patended" line or saying that "always works wonders."
The sad truth of this is that there is no one line that will bring a woman to her knees. Hell, there isn't a set 100 lines that will bring a woman to her knees.
The whole idea of the approach is to be genuine, easy to understand, and most importantly unique. You cannot mold your set lines into all situations, if hardly any.
Take for example a cold approach at a nightclub.
You're extremely prepared. You've got your choice of 3 openers written down on the palm of your hand. All of them appear to be sly and witty. So you choose one and approach. She's sitting what appears to be all alone at the bar.
"So why is it that a pretty lady like you finds herself all alone at the bar?"
She looks at you with a smile (considering you are the best looking male present) and says
"Well, I'm not exactly alone." and proceeds to point to 3 of her friends standing five feet away guzzling down shots as if they were in a third world country famine.
And mister one liner, you're game ends there.. And some will say, well I could always play that off and start up something new, but no.
Approaches should not be planned out or written on your palm. You might as well put it on your forehead because at this point, you are labled an idiot.
You see, approaches are not meant to be planned. They are spontaneous. They work when they are improvised. Why? Because while a one liner may get the attention of your prey, it only detatches yourself from the situation. Go into the situation with an idea. Not a line.
Women have long evolved from cavewomen and realize when a man wants to have a witty conversation, and when a man just wants to seem witty for a few seconds. And in order to be witty for more than a few seconds (oh god forbid), you have to take interest in her situation. For at least ten minutes, you need to vibe with her, not with your set of lines you have layed out. While she won't feel any vibes from your generic lines, she will feel vibes when you single the situation out. When you start up a genuine, playful conversation that is relevant to the setting.
While I do feel bad for all the men who fail time after time with these sad excuses for a conversation opener, I also don't see how they haven't learned.
You don't have to put the ***** on a pedastal, but you do have to connect with her for at least a few minutes on a conversational level.
Be spontaneous, be confident, and most importantly don't be predictable.
The sad truth of this is that there is no one line that will bring a woman to her knees. Hell, there isn't a set 100 lines that will bring a woman to her knees.
The whole idea of the approach is to be genuine, easy to understand, and most importantly unique. You cannot mold your set lines into all situations, if hardly any.
Take for example a cold approach at a nightclub.
You're extremely prepared. You've got your choice of 3 openers written down on the palm of your hand. All of them appear to be sly and witty. So you choose one and approach. She's sitting what appears to be all alone at the bar.
"So why is it that a pretty lady like you finds herself all alone at the bar?"
She looks at you with a smile (considering you are the best looking male present) and says
"Well, I'm not exactly alone." and proceeds to point to 3 of her friends standing five feet away guzzling down shots as if they were in a third world country famine.
And mister one liner, you're game ends there.. And some will say, well I could always play that off and start up something new, but no.
Approaches should not be planned out or written on your palm. You might as well put it on your forehead because at this point, you are labled an idiot.
You see, approaches are not meant to be planned. They are spontaneous. They work when they are improvised. Why? Because while a one liner may get the attention of your prey, it only detatches yourself from the situation. Go into the situation with an idea. Not a line.
Women have long evolved from cavewomen and realize when a man wants to have a witty conversation, and when a man just wants to seem witty for a few seconds. And in order to be witty for more than a few seconds (oh god forbid), you have to take interest in her situation. For at least ten minutes, you need to vibe with her, not with your set of lines you have layed out. While she won't feel any vibes from your generic lines, she will feel vibes when you single the situation out. When you start up a genuine, playful conversation that is relevant to the setting.
While I do feel bad for all the men who fail time after time with these sad excuses for a conversation opener, I also don't see how they haven't learned.
You don't have to put the ***** on a pedastal, but you do have to connect with her for at least a few minutes on a conversational level.
Be spontaneous, be confident, and most importantly don't be predictable.