"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stuck22

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alright boys.. here's the deal.. there's a girl i've been working on for awhile, and i've played most of my cards right... we've been out the past couple saturdays, and this last saturday went very well (there was a goodnight kiss etc.). I know she's interested.. and she's coming over tommorrow night when the parents are out of town... but a conversation today with a couple girls from school gave me a little paranoia... they were talking about how well.. when they were on their period they were not horny at all, and generally not interested in guys during that time... so... worst case scenerio is she's on it... so my question is..do these girls know what they're talking about? or is it just them.. i've been planning this night for awhile and i want all to go right.. you get my drift.. anyway.. requesting your thoughts and experience regarding the timeliness of a girl's hornyness...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well I don't think I need to be a don juan to tell you not to worry. she knows she's coming over to your place; she knows what she's doing. also, odds are she's NOT on her period
 

Jerky Boi

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If she was on it, she prolly wouldn't want to come over to your place. And she'd prolly be in a lot worse of a mood ;]
 

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So what, shell let you know if she cant for a medical reason, if not, you can always get red wings. Just beware of pushing it too hard.
 
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