"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Little Overview About Game

ChrizZ

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Night Game:

+ Lots of hot girls at one spot
+ Some of them are drunk
+ You can escalate faster
+ Lots of them are single


- Too much competition
- Most women are in groups which makes it harder to isolate
- Women get hit on constantly
- Women appear hotter at night than during the day
- Logistics are usually bad
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- Lots of social pressure on her (friends judge her)
- Very low attention span
- You can wreck your social value
- flaking is very likely if you f--k up somewhere
- you usually have to spend money in a club

Day Game:

+ Women are usually alone
+ They don't expect to get hit on
+ You don't have to worry about social value
+ No competition
+ Logistics are more flexible
+ b@tch shield is lower
+ It's easy to go on an instant date
+ Shows that you have courage unlike the drunk guys she meets at the club
+ Women are everywhere
+ What you see is what you get
+ She thinks it's more romantic

- Your job hours might not allow you to do day game
- Most women are not drunk during the day
- You don't have any social proof

Online Game (I have never done it. This is my theory though)

+ It's all about looks
+ You have less pressure because you don't have to talk, just chat
+ It weeds out the women that want to f--k you
+ Lots of competition
+ Saves time
+ Is a good addition to day and night game

- It's all about looks
- She might look different in person
- You still have to meet her in person
- She might lie on her profile

Everybody agree on this?

ps: This is more in terms of getting laid than finding a gf or wife...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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In terms of getting laid...

Night game seems to be the best way to go. I found it harder to fvck close a girl in day time.
 

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Day game is better IMO for me, I have no social value so it's a more viable option.

MM
 

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- Too much competition
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- You can wreck your social value

I think these are all night game limiting beliefs. If you want me to go into them, I can.

In general, night game is harder, higher octane, greater risk/greater reward game. You can get laid knowing a girl only an hour, but you have to be willing to get blown out HARD to do it.

Day game is pretty chill and low key. You can meet a lot of quality women, but it takes a lot more time, and a lot longer to escalate the interaction.

I prefer night game.
 

schttrj

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ChrizZ said:
Night Game:

+ Lots of hot girls at one spot
+ Some of them are drunk
+ You can escalate faster
+ Lots of them are single


- Too much competition
- Most women are in groups which makes it harder to isolate
- Women get hit on constantly
- Women appear hotter at night than during the day
- Logistics are usually bad
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- Lots of social pressure on her (friends judge her)
- Very low attention span
- You can wreck your social value
- flaking is very likely if you f--k up somewhere
- you usually have to spend money in a club

Day Game:

+ Women are usually alone
+ They don't expect to get hit on
+ You don't have to worry about social value
+ No competition
+ Logistics are more flexible
+ b@tch shield is lower
+ It's easy to go on an instant date
+ Shows that you have courage unlike the drunk guys she meets at the club
+ Women are everywhere
+ What you see is what you get
+ She thinks it's more romantic

- Your job hours might not allow you to do day game
- Most women are not drunk during the day
- You don't have any social proof

Online Game (I have never done it. This is my theory though)

+ It's all about looks
+ You have less pressure because you don't have to talk, just chat
+ It weeds out the women that want to f--k you
+ Lots of competition
+ Saves time
+ Is a good addition to day and night game

- It's all about looks
- She might look different in person
- You still have to meet her in person
- She might lie on her profile

Everybody agree on this?

ps: This is more in terms of getting laid than finding a gf or wife...
i pretty much agree on all of this.... spot on, dude!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ready123

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man I love night game because I love party envinroments. the high energy / low comprehension actually simplifies things when you're "on". you can just vibe and it'll carry. interactions move a LOT faster too. and about the competition, most guys in the clubs really don't do sht but stand there holding their drink

wait til you're 21 ChrizZ and hit up those clubs, you'll enjoy it
 
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