"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Little Overview About Game

ChrizZ

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Night Game:

+ Lots of hot girls at one spot
+ Some of them are drunk
+ You can escalate faster
+ Lots of them are single


- Too much competition
- Most women are in groups which makes it harder to isolate
- Women get hit on constantly
- Women appear hotter at night than during the day
- Logistics are usually bad
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- Lots of social pressure on her (friends judge her)
- Very low attention span
- You can wreck your social value
- flaking is very likely if you f--k up somewhere
- you usually have to spend money in a club

Day Game:

+ Women are usually alone
+ They don't expect to get hit on
+ You don't have to worry about social value
+ No competition
+ Logistics are more flexible
+ b@tch shield is lower
+ It's easy to go on an instant date
+ Shows that you have courage unlike the drunk guys she meets at the club
+ Women are everywhere
+ What you see is what you get
+ She thinks it's more romantic

- Your job hours might not allow you to do day game
- Most women are not drunk during the day
- You don't have any social proof

Online Game (I have never done it. This is my theory though)

+ It's all about looks
+ You have less pressure because you don't have to talk, just chat
+ It weeds out the women that want to f--k you
+ Lots of competition
+ Saves time
+ Is a good addition to day and night game

- It's all about looks
- She might look different in person
- You still have to meet her in person
- She might lie on her profile

Everybody agree on this?

ps: This is more in terms of getting laid than finding a gf or wife...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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In terms of getting laid...

Night game seems to be the best way to go. I found it harder to fvck close a girl in day time.
 

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Day game is better IMO for me, I have no social value so it's a more viable option.

MM
 

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- Too much competition
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- You can wreck your social value

I think these are all night game limiting beliefs. If you want me to go into them, I can.

In general, night game is harder, higher octane, greater risk/greater reward game. You can get laid knowing a girl only an hour, but you have to be willing to get blown out HARD to do it.

Day game is pretty chill and low key. You can meet a lot of quality women, but it takes a lot more time, and a lot longer to escalate the interaction.

I prefer night game.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Night Game:

+ Lots of hot girls at one spot
+ Some of them are drunk
+ You can escalate faster
+ Lots of them are single


- Too much competition
- Most women are in groups which makes it harder to isolate
- Women get hit on constantly
- Women appear hotter at night than during the day
- Logistics are usually bad
- Most women don't like meeting guys in clubs, but they like getting hit on to get an ego boost
- Lots of social pressure on her (friends judge her)
- Very low attention span
- You can wreck your social value
- flaking is very likely if you f--k up somewhere
- you usually have to spend money in a club

Day Game:

+ Women are usually alone
+ They don't expect to get hit on
+ You don't have to worry about social value
+ No competition
+ Logistics are more flexible
+ b@tch shield is lower
+ It's easy to go on an instant date
+ Shows that you have courage unlike the drunk guys she meets at the club
+ Women are everywhere
+ What you see is what you get
+ She thinks it's more romantic

- Your job hours might not allow you to do day game
- Most women are not drunk during the day
- You don't have any social proof

Online Game (I have never done it. This is my theory though)

+ It's all about looks
+ You have less pressure because you don't have to talk, just chat
+ It weeds out the women that want to f--k you
+ Lots of competition
+ Saves time
+ Is a good addition to day and night game

- It's all about looks
- She might look different in person
- You still have to meet her in person
- She might lie on her profile

Everybody agree on this?

ps: This is more in terms of getting laid than finding a gf or wife...
i pretty much agree on all of this.... spot on, dude!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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man I love night game because I love party envinroments. the high energy / low comprehension actually simplifies things when you're "on". you can just vibe and it'll carry. interactions move a LOT faster too. and about the competition, most guys in the clubs really don't do sht but stand there holding their drink

wait til you're 21 ChrizZ and hit up those clubs, you'll enjoy it
 
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