"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonkeyPunch

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Hey Guys, I'm new to this site, and I'm glad i've found it. I sorta have a problem that I don't know how to deal with. Maybe someone can help. I've always been confident and don't seem to have too much of a hard time talking with women. Well, not to long ago, my homeboy's cousin set me up with a blind date. I'm usually not one to participate in these things, but it was more like a favor from me to him (or so I thought..). Anyway, the day comes and I meet up with this girl for some chinese buffet and a movie afterwards. When I got to the restaurant, the only girl inside was a "little person". I thought to myself "nah, thats not her. she must be late, that's all". So I waited another 15min and decided to ask her what her name was to see if it was her or not. Guess what; it was her! I was beginning to think that my long time friend had played a cruel trick on me. But not to be rude to this girl, I decided to go along with the date. After the date was over with, I realized how well we had been communicating & getting along. "I really like this little chick", i say to myself. So here is my little problem: As we were in the middle of our fourth date, I accendently said something about a midget in front of her during a convo....needless to say, she was p!ssed :mad: She hasnt spoken to me in two days now and I feel real hurt over this. What can I do to bring this awesome little chick back into my life? :confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YogurtSlinger

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That's pretty messed up. Have you tried sending her roses? Probably stay away from long stem roses, they may be as tall as her and make her mad again...
 
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