A little help please?

[Seeph]

Ok, I have talked to a few friends (girls) about this because i am VERY confused on this matter. I need someone impartial to give me their opinion. I just started school. One of my classes I saw this really beautiful girl walk in. I went in after talking to some friends and sat right next to her and introduced myself and started talking ( im a confident, funny guy)... I can talk to pretty much anyone... She talked back and everything. I have classes Monday Wednesday and Friday with her. Wednesday a friend of mine sat in her spot. She came in and sat right behind me. So Friday she came in early and asked if she could sit by me i said yea. She started talking about her week and what she had been doing and asked me Q's. We really hit it off so i asked her for her Phone #. She said yea and gave it to me without hesitation. I tried to call her but got an error msg. So monday I asked why she said phone was messing up. SO we sat and talked all through class. Come wednesday she keeps dropping hints.. "i went out with some friends and my guy friend, we're just friends thats all bought me drinks." She mentioned her "guy friend" before, but always made sure to imply they were strictly platonic (spelling?). So that night I gave her a call and asked her if she wasnt seeing anyone if shed like to hang out sometime.. She said " yea but i kinda have a boyfriend i just broke up with.. blah blah" "but id love to hang out with you still". I ended the conversation nicely and told her i had to do homework. So friday i saw her b4 another class and appologized for putting her on the spot and when I went to walk off she stopped me and started talking to me for about 5 minutes. Anyways she was asking me about what I thought about her if she was to do something. I asked what her boyfriend thought. She said they were over. So I invited her to stop by the frat party and chill. Later that night i was Drunk and called her, she didnt answer and never called back.. So next night i figured id give it one more try and called her and she answered, so i told her to stop by and b4 i could get answer my battery went dead so I plugged it into charger within 30 secs... but she never called back. So I havnt called her since. About a week has passed. I started sitting with a couple of friends a few rows back.. She asked me why i moved and i told her b/c the girl on my other side i couldnt stand ( which i cant ). When i see her i say hey.. In the other classes i have with her she has moved slowly towards me.. and now sits in front of me in each class. Today in the class i've sat next to her in she asked if she could sit with me.. I told her sure. She drew smiley face on my arm and all that bull****.. touching me flirtingly & laughing. She brought up the ol' "BF". We were talking about dorm rooms, she said "my ex-boyfriends brother had one of those last year.. blah blah" I asked why they broke up.. she said "i stopped talking to him for 3 days and now he wont talk to me" (that is not broken up). So she flirted some more and class ended and I said later and left with a friend Ok. So is this girl keeping me on the back burner, not sure what she wants, trying to be a playa, or just teasing me?

Thanks

 

[drixsa]

some things really stood out

1. You talk way to much about her ex BF's etc.

what you need to do is have her focusing and worrying about YOU and direct the convo away from the BF

2. You call too much

the only bad thing about being drunk is the drunken dialing
you dont need to call every day or even every other day

3. You need to be direct

lets go out on X day (doesnt have to be a date just has to be set)
clear it up, you can be friends but if shes got a BF you arent going to be played

this girl is goin hot and cold on you and she seems to be keeping her options open

see how it goes and consider NEXTing this girl

 

[Seeph]

Yea, she kinda confused me today with her hot cold $h1t... I took her # out of my phone after that night.. I pretty much just act like she is some girl passing by.. (she basically is) if she wants to talk i wont be rude, and if she wants to fuvk she'll let me know. I'll give her just enough so she doesnt think im blowing her off and next her for now. Thanks for helping set me straight.

Seeph

 

[Pimp-sicle]

ATTENTION ***** ATTENTION ***** WHY DO YOU INFECT SO MANY HB'S WITH YOUR HORRIBLE DIEASE!!


Seeph: Here are your crucial errors bro.


-Apologizing for NOTHING!!!

Remember bro an Alpha Male has needs. When he sees something he wants, he goes and get's it, with no regrets or hesistation for his actions. You asked her to "hangout sometime" and then apologized for your intentions!! That's AFC to the extreme. Your being to careful around her because you don't want her to lose interest or get mad at you. When it actuality you should ask yourself what this byatch can give to you. Your already putting her above you and your definitely taking her bait.


-Phone Calls

Drixsa already mentioned this but GOD DAMN bro, why in the world are you calling her 24/7. I don't even know you and I can tell you based on this information that you have NO OTHER PROSPECTS!! That's a big no-no. This girl's a HB, she can smell out that your on her like flies on shiznit just by the way your calling her so much. You need to create attraction!! So far, all you created is a flaky friend, if you want to call her that, that doesn't respect you as a man.


-Moving Seats

When your drunken phone call didn't get returned you moved your seat in the class the next week. Even though you were still friendly with her(which was good) you still acted waay too AFC by giving her the indirect message of being mad when things don't go your way.


Bring up the X!!

-Cardinal sin to talk about X boyfriends with girls your trying to bang. Like Drixsa said, you want to focus her emotions on feeling good for you, rather than shoving thoughts of her X in her mind. This makes her percieve you as jealous, a little worried and not confident enough in yourself.


Another big red flag about this byatch is the fact that she has a lot of guy friends. I can almost assure you that 90% of her friends are guys, who just like you met her in class, tried to bang her and failed and then landed in LJBF land. Instead of stealing their testicles back from her, they gave her a lock and key to keep them forever. Those chumps will never get her and she knows it. The bad part is she's auditioning new males to join these chumps and if you keep acting the way you have around her, you'll be her lastest "victim."

Now you know why I PREECH so much about NOT trying to date any girls from your class, unless her IL is very high. When you have to see the same girl 2-3x a week in class and then you try to hang out with her at night, its the fast road to LJBF land.


So what do you do from here? Get your seat back next to her, but have your friends sit on the other side of you. Try to actually pay attention to the lecture in class so you don't have to talk to her as much. When she talks to you respond back nicely and friendly. Talk to your bros just as much if not more and leave it at that. Say your hi's and bye's at the beginning and end of class but don't try to pursue anything more. Trust me bro if she was interested in you, she would have called you at least once by now. Remember you want to keep phone calls even or in your favor. For example if a HB calls me 3x, then I'll call her once. This keeps byatches on edge, constantly wondering about you, and amplifying attraction.



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