"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A little help here guys?

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So my friend gave me this number of an HB8.5 he says.

Says she is hot. Slim, tall, with great features.

So I have the number now, and I texted her "Heyy".

She texts back "Who is this?"

My question is, how do I go on from here.

-my friend gave me her number
-she and I don't know each other
-I can't say my friend gave it to me, so what do I say?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Repentance said:
So my friend gave me this number of an HB8.5 he says.

Says she is hot. Slim, tall, with great features.

So I have the number now, and I texted her "Heyy".

She texts back "Who is this?"

My question is, how do I go on from here.

-my friend gave me her number
-she and I don't know each other
-I can't say my friend gave it to me, so what do I say?

Thanks
1) You're probably being pranked, she's probably ugly?
2) Don't say ****, add her on Facebook, it just seems creepy if you have her number from some guy.

I guess MAYBE you could get away with being like "I'm a mate of *friend's name*, he kept pestering me to text you *insert some message from your friend* as he's out of credit -.-"
 

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No no. He showed me a pic today, she's definitely hot.

I can't say I got the number from my friend. That would seem wrong and my friend would end up seeming untrustable in her eyes even if there is no harm done, etc.

I am pretty good with ladies and such, but this is a first time ever situation so I don't know how to let her know "where I got the number from".
 

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This sounds retarded.

Everything about it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Make out like you have the wrong number altogether and use it as banter unless shes close with your friend?

Kinda the same situation when you're acting on a number you recieved from a drunk girl? <--- Maybe use that one lol!
 

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Ok, I texted her. I tell her who I am and she tells me about herself. Doesn't ask where I got the number from.

Few texts, she says "I still don't know who you are -__-" and I say "we'll fix that haha".

She responds kinda cold "goodbye".
But I quickly turn the tables (apparently) and save(?) it by saying:

"Heyy, I got your number from "place", so I decided we'll get together sometime. Don't be so stingy miss".

To which she instaNTLY replies "lmao", and from there on in starts talking really friendly, asks for facebook to see me, etc.

Few texts more and I say I got to go, we'll talk later to which she responds "sure. we talk later. bye stranger :)"

So anyways, I might not be the best with the ladies, but I definitely am pretty good (bettter than the average no doubt). But this situation is a first timer,

SO, how do I continue it from here?

I didn't contact her since, and I did say I WOULD talk later, so I don't mind initiating again. Total texts: about 30, half of which were "who r u" and "oh ok"s.
 

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HAHA that is sooo weird! Why would your friend give you his friend's number?
 

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IamJosan said:
HAHA that is sooo weird! Why would your friend give you his friend's number?
Ha! That's the first thing that popped into my mind. "Why would the friend do this? If she's hot, why doesn't he wanna bang her himself?"

There could be something wrong with the chick... proceed with caution.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This kinda reminds me of one of my ex g/fs. She was so hot and slutty, and she literally got passed around. Someone would hit it for a month, and then pawn her off on someone else. And she was so insane that she would just go with it without even caring how they found her. Just a little c&f, or even AFC "charm" and she would bite.

vatoloco said:
There could be something wrong with the chick... proceed with caution.
SERIOUSLY!
 

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Lol , you guys.

Anyways, he gave me her number because when he tried to game her, she introduced her friend to him, who he ended up gaming and f-ing every week.

So as a friend, he passed the number over, so I can get that girl (hopefully) while he got away with the other one since this one didn't work for him.

Guess I should've explained this before ; )
 

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rocket87 said:
You're [both] creepy. This will go nowhere. Move on.
Agreed.

Even as a man, if some random chick texted me out of the blue, talking about how she got my number from a friend, I'd already start filing the restraining order.

No one, male or female, should be that desperate.
 

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Seriously, wtf is this guys? lol
come on youre supposed to help out here, not rant over how I got a hot, hot babe's number via a friend

I mean, it's not like I'm trying to contact her anymore or create somewhat interest. all that has been done.

ok, just for the hell of it, I'm definitely gonna steeer this my way now. Next time I update, it'll be with results.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You didn't get a hot girls number. You stole it lol.
 

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I didn't steal it.

I GOT it. From a friend. Maybe not from the girl herself (because we never met anyways so how could I have gotten it).

But I still got it. And on top of that, she's perfectly fine with it, and even shows IL.
 

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IL doesn't mean nothing if you can't do anything with it, Let's see if you can do something.
 

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Right, because the bottomline is whether I get it or not.

it doesn't matter how the number got to me. This isn't some honesty or holy procedure; that **** has to stay clean and the number must be acquired directly from her.

Numbers there. Interest is there. Possibility of sliding in bed with her is there.

Thats what matters, no?

Anyways, I'll update this thread soon with any progress.
 

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Repentance said:
Numbers there. Interest is there. Possibility of sliding in bed with her is there.
Is there? Only one way to find out: stop with all this fucking texting shit and CLOSE her. Ask her out. The proof is in the pudding, my friend! ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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