"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A little help here guys?

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So my friend gave me this number of an HB8.5 he says.

Says she is hot. Slim, tall, with great features.

So I have the number now, and I texted her "Heyy".

She texts back "Who is this?"

My question is, how do I go on from here.

-my friend gave me her number
-she and I don't know each other
-I can't say my friend gave it to me, so what do I say?

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Repentance said:
So my friend gave me this number of an HB8.5 he says.

Says she is hot. Slim, tall, with great features.

So I have the number now, and I texted her "Heyy".

She texts back "Who is this?"

My question is, how do I go on from here.

-my friend gave me her number
-she and I don't know each other
-I can't say my friend gave it to me, so what do I say?

Thanks
1) You're probably being pranked, she's probably ugly?
2) Don't say ****, add her on Facebook, it just seems creepy if you have her number from some guy.

I guess MAYBE you could get away with being like "I'm a mate of *friend's name*, he kept pestering me to text you *insert some message from your friend* as he's out of credit -.-"
 

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No no. He showed me a pic today, she's definitely hot.

I can't say I got the number from my friend. That would seem wrong and my friend would end up seeming untrustable in her eyes even if there is no harm done, etc.

I am pretty good with ladies and such, but this is a first time ever situation so I don't know how to let her know "where I got the number from".
 

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This sounds retarded.

Everything about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Make out like you have the wrong number altogether and use it as banter unless shes close with your friend?

Kinda the same situation when you're acting on a number you recieved from a drunk girl? <--- Maybe use that one lol!
 

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Ok, I texted her. I tell her who I am and she tells me about herself. Doesn't ask where I got the number from.

Few texts, she says "I still don't know who you are -__-" and I say "we'll fix that haha".

She responds kinda cold "goodbye".
But I quickly turn the tables (apparently) and save(?) it by saying:

"Heyy, I got your number from "place", so I decided we'll get together sometime. Don't be so stingy miss".

To which she instaNTLY replies "lmao", and from there on in starts talking really friendly, asks for facebook to see me, etc.

Few texts more and I say I got to go, we'll talk later to which she responds "sure. we talk later. bye stranger :)"

So anyways, I might not be the best with the ladies, but I definitely am pretty good (bettter than the average no doubt). But this situation is a first timer,

SO, how do I continue it from here?

I didn't contact her since, and I did say I WOULD talk later, so I don't mind initiating again. Total texts: about 30, half of which were "who r u" and "oh ok"s.
 

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HAHA that is sooo weird! Why would your friend give you his friend's number?
 

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IamJosan said:
HAHA that is sooo weird! Why would your friend give you his friend's number?
Ha! That's the first thing that popped into my mind. "Why would the friend do this? If she's hot, why doesn't he wanna bang her himself?"

There could be something wrong with the chick... proceed with caution.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This kinda reminds me of one of my ex g/fs. She was so hot and slutty, and she literally got passed around. Someone would hit it for a month, and then pawn her off on someone else. And she was so insane that she would just go with it without even caring how they found her. Just a little c&f, or even AFC "charm" and she would bite.

vatoloco said:
There could be something wrong with the chick... proceed with caution.
SERIOUSLY!
 

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Lol , you guys.

Anyways, he gave me her number because when he tried to game her, she introduced her friend to him, who he ended up gaming and f-ing every week.

So as a friend, he passed the number over, so I can get that girl (hopefully) while he got away with the other one since this one didn't work for him.

Guess I should've explained this before ; )
 

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rocket87 said:
You're [both] creepy. This will go nowhere. Move on.
Agreed.

Even as a man, if some random chick texted me out of the blue, talking about how she got my number from a friend, I'd already start filing the restraining order.

No one, male or female, should be that desperate.
 

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Seriously, wtf is this guys? lol
come on youre supposed to help out here, not rant over how I got a hot, hot babe's number via a friend

I mean, it's not like I'm trying to contact her anymore or create somewhat interest. all that has been done.

ok, just for the hell of it, I'm definitely gonna steeer this my way now. Next time I update, it'll be with results.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You didn't get a hot girls number. You stole it lol.
 

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I didn't steal it.

I GOT it. From a friend. Maybe not from the girl herself (because we never met anyways so how could I have gotten it).

But I still got it. And on top of that, she's perfectly fine with it, and even shows IL.
 

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IL doesn't mean nothing if you can't do anything with it, Let's see if you can do something.
 

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Right, because the bottomline is whether I get it or not.

it doesn't matter how the number got to me. This isn't some honesty or holy procedure; that **** has to stay clean and the number must be acquired directly from her.

Numbers there. Interest is there. Possibility of sliding in bed with her is there.

Thats what matters, no?

Anyways, I'll update this thread soon with any progress.
 

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Repentance said:
Numbers there. Interest is there. Possibility of sliding in bed with her is there.
Is there? Only one way to find out: stop with all this fucking texting shit and CLOSE her. Ask her out. The proof is in the pudding, my friend! ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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