Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A little guessing game

Which one of them is a man?


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Rovalier

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Below are two pictures.

Picture 1
Picture 2

Which one of them is a man?

Now if you know the identities of either of these two, don't ruin the fun. Let people guess :D

Am I trying to be devious? or I am trying to be obvious to trick you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rovalier

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If any admins or mods read this, please make the poll anonymous. Thanks.

As for the answers I will tell in a few days.
 

Rovalier

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The poll closes on the 10th. I will reveal names and identities on that day. Until that happens keep voting.

And yea bump :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skel

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Thanks for telling me this isnt safe for work *******
 

Rovalier

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NSFW :eek: -- can't edit the first post, guess the post and poll locks together.
 

Steg

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That's sick bro, lmao

Makes you think about cold aproaches ey?
 

Rovalier

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Don't take this the wrong way, I am not trying to discourage cold approaches :D

I looked up on the topic and yea it comes to the point the former male can surgically replicate a vagina, via a rhinoplasty. So the only real way to tell if a girl was a guy is the classic adam's apple and sometimes even that is hard to determine if it is not pronounced. OR if her vagina is a bit too "dry", which is a bit too late.

BTW wiki link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harisu (on Harisu) - which is worksafe.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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IsiMan84

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Rovalier said:
Picture 1: I guess you can argue in both cases, it is female, legally speaking.

Picture 2: Kartika Gunawan[/url] is a female wrestler.
So there's no right answer, good work.
 

Tomatoes

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Thats scary......That first pic.....He....she....it....accutally looks hot.


But then I have a gay friend who has shown me pics of his transexual friends and its scary how much they look like women. Some of them. The contructed vigina can fool most men. The only way to know for sure he tells me is to go down on her.

The bastard was going to set me up with one of them without me knowing. I have to keep an eye out.
 

SamePendo

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That is the sexiest dude I've seen in my life.
 

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Off the bat, I looked at pic 1 for the adam's apple, but it was blocked. Then, the hips didn't look right. The more I looked, the hips were way fuxed up. So I actually guessed #1

The shoulders on pic 2 weren't broad enough to be a man, but obviously she lifted weights. You could tell between the neck and the shoulders that it was a woman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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