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a little fight with AFCness

CS_whoamI?

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Story::

This 19yr girl is by far the most cutiest in class. She is kind of sun shine girl who flirt around to get help in study(get someone to do assignment for her)
Due to my inexperience in DJing, I some time wuss up with her, some time play cold on her. So not thing much going on btw us which is ok for me since she is not really my type and I know that she already has bf.

Any way, yesterday, she show up in class all dress up. Damm!! she was so cute. I suddenly raise her level from 6 to 8. I try so hard to stay cool in class and pull a couple C&F at her. I guess my C&F skill need improvment cuz it show so little effect or cuz she is good a hiding her feeling.

After class, she came to me asking for help with assignment(again). I told her I have to go to work.
Now this is the hardest time I had.
She pull out this "I am poor little cute girl really need help or else I am going to cry" on me. My AFCness was screaming!! It just want to hold her and tell her "baby please don't make you face like that I will do anything for you to smile for me agian" I felt my gut& lost focus for seconds. Then I turn back and went to work.

Since I left the class all the way to work, I felt so terrible. I really regret for that I hurt that poor little girl. I don't know what to do. So I sms her that I know she can do all those assignment by herself If she really want to do it, I want to help her but It would be bad for her in the future.

That night she called ask for help with her work again. so I advice her on what she could do.
Then she told me that her it will be her birthday next week. I told her that I will find time to take her out next week.


Question::
1. I know I like her. My AFCness wanna take her to nice resturant give her romantic date etc. Call me stupid!! but I really don't know what to do?
2. What should I do to increase interest level. Is being nice tutor considered AFC? How can I present my caring and tenderness without being Wussy?
3. Any comment is open.
4. Thanks for your time and I am glad that I found this board, Is there any mind-opener board like this one on others subject?(carreer,business, etc.)
 

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ConantheLibertarian

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She's not your girlfriend, so don't take her out for her birthday. That's her boyfriend's job. Tutoring her is fine, just don't be her doormat and do the work for her. You barely know her, and she has a boyfriend, showing her tenderness and caring is not the way to go about things.

Don't let her play you, don't be afraid to show some backbone. Good job turning your back when she tried to manipulate you, you need to do more of that.

Also focus on some other chicks, without boyfriends. Read the DJ Bible for tips on how to do that :).
 
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