"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A little favour :)

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Hey guys
I all ask of you a small insy binsy favour.
My brother has recently started DJing commericially and he has recently entered into a contest to play at a huge gig!! this will be the extra boost he needs to becoming more known in the DJ Dance scene.

so please vote for him :)

8th row down - DJ Hendricks & NV
heres the link :
http://www.m2events.co.nz/Voting/2008-09-27-TheLab/2008-09-27-TheLab.aspx



Thanks guys!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bump thanks to all who voted, if you haven't, help a brother out
 
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I'm a fellow DJ myself glad I could help out

Hope everything works out for him
 
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