"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so me and my gf were talking last night and somehow we got onto the subject of her mom being a sex ed teacher for hispanic woman a while back. She went to one of her classes once and her mom was showing the other woman how to use sex toys and all...and then she showed them some vibrator and my gf told me something on the lines of, "damn babe! that thing was so big! i was like damn i could never fit all that in there!"

after that i was feeling alittle down because im not that big down there...im around 5" ....is there anything i can do to bring my confidence back up? or any techniques i can use during sex to make up for my lack of size?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nothing u can change about ur size. just have to accept it and live with it.

im being brash and cold and abrupt because its the truth..
hope this helps.
 

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calm down, im pretty sure she already understands that all men and all toys come in different sizes, shapes, colors , smells and tastes.

women really dont care about the exact size, we care about being felt wanted and needed and adored and stuff like that
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by penkitten

women really dont care about the exact size, we care about being felt wanted and needed and adored and stuff like that
:eek: "Adored"??....b!tch should get a puppy.

Anyway I doubt 5 inches is really all that bad, its girth they want anyway, as long as she feels "full" so to speak your fine. Plus chicks have absolutely zero clue on judging c@ck length, spatial awareness and all that stuff, they literally wouldnt be able to guess correctly at gun point.

Just tell her your a straight 7. tiny hands and all that, she'll buy it.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
women really dont care about the exact size, we care about being felt wanted and needed and adored and stuff like that
sure :rolleyes:

Sh!t, this is probably the biggest ****ing lie out there. Size does matter - never forget that.

Several times I've heard my female friends diss guys with small ****s. One of them actually said (verbatim) "I don't know if he was trying to **** me or erase me." I just went :eek: since I know the poor guy.

If you have a small ****, I suggest you develop some other techniques to give her earth shattering orgasms. Now matter what you believe, they will talk behind your back about your **** size.
 
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