A little dilemma

[DJjazzyJeff]

Okay, here's my problem. There is a girl I have been djing, but she has integrity and has a boyfriend so wouldn't even talk to me, but casually if we ran into each other but her best friend told me she would be interested if she didn't have a b/f. Well today I found this guy has been cheating on her left and right......and I know the girls and they said they would tell her.....what would you do? Just forget about her and move on or something else?

 

[Egyptiandude1]

Well that depends, are you willing to become her emotional tampon, her rebound guy for the next few months...?

NEXT!

Nuff Said




latez...~!~

 

[deeman]

oh man, I have been there b4. I ahve a policy i use tho. If it is a girl that I am friends with and not interested in, I would verify how credible the source is and if they were good then I would tell her and make sure she investigated for herself.

Now if it was a girl I was trying to get with, I would tell her a thing and shake my head in disappointment. The only thing I would probably do is hit to a friend of hers that the guy was no good (and maybe point her in the right direction) so that she could be the barer of bad news.

What ever u do do not try and take it on your shoulders to tell her. For some odd reason it always back fires in one way or another.

The messanger always gets shot dog.......always.

 

[sAxyguy83]

Definitely get her friends to tell her. DO NOT confront the bf directly - there is NO concievable way that could end well. Same goes for telling her directly.

 

[DJjazzyJeff]

one of her friends mentioned it

One of her friends mentioned it and she called me begging me to tell her, for like 30 minutes........I know you guys said not to, but midway, I was like **** it, I don't want to be with her any more. And so I told her...and she thought I was lying...and so I had the girl send her the instant message conversations they were having and just left it at that.....she's going to call me back, but now she's done pissed me off....another thing I didn't mention is I had a past with this girl....I treated her bad for about 2 yearsand never really wanted her until one day I woke up and realized all women are as good or as good looking as her....and so this was the last try....but I guess it's over right?........right. thanks anyway playas