Alright so I'm going to make this quick because I'm tired.
So there's this girl I was seeing, we went on a couple dates and she started sending me randoms texts saying she missed me and she really liked me and then one day jokingly i said "you should stop trying to be my girlfriend" and she took that as I wanted a more serious relationship, which at the moment I don't.
She explained to me that she didn't want a serious relationship at the moment either, but she started to think I did. So another week went by and she still sent me texts and told me she liked me and then people started spreading the word that we're a couple and that kind of scared her because she just got out of a relationship and wants to just be free or play the field I guess (I'm not ignorant) she also explained to me that she's in college now (she's a freshman) and she wanted to be single for awhile.
So last weekend she was still physically all over me, she'd "kino" as you guys say and I'd kino back and we'd get flirty, but now she seems even more stand-offish and doesn't really talk to me anymore.
Tomorrow I plan to explain to her that this whole thing was a misunderstanding and I shouldn't have let it get so out of hand and that I really just want us to go back to our "seeing" each other stage where we'd hook up and that's about it.
Is there anything else I should do to try to salvage this?
She was genuinely interested in me until people started making us out to be a serious couple which we never were. I should have said something in the beginning to stop this but I was kind of interested on how she would react.
So there's this girl I was seeing, we went on a couple dates and she started sending me randoms texts saying she missed me and she really liked me and then one day jokingly i said "you should stop trying to be my girlfriend" and she took that as I wanted a more serious relationship, which at the moment I don't.
She explained to me that she didn't want a serious relationship at the moment either, but she started to think I did. So another week went by and she still sent me texts and told me she liked me and then people started spreading the word that we're a couple and that kind of scared her because she just got out of a relationship and wants to just be free or play the field I guess (I'm not ignorant) she also explained to me that she's in college now (she's a freshman) and she wanted to be single for awhile.
So last weekend she was still physically all over me, she'd "kino" as you guys say and I'd kino back and we'd get flirty, but now she seems even more stand-offish and doesn't really talk to me anymore.
Tomorrow I plan to explain to her that this whole thing was a misunderstanding and I shouldn't have let it get so out of hand and that I really just want us to go back to our "seeing" each other stage where we'd hook up and that's about it.
Is there anything else I should do to try to salvage this?
She was genuinely interested in me until people started making us out to be a serious couple which we never were. I should have said something in the beginning to stop this but I was kind of interested on how she would react.
