A little confused

[goodfella86]

Whats up DJ's, this is my first post. I am in college, so there are plenty of hot girls to try to pick up. My problem is that when I do get good body language from a girl it always seems to happen when i am trying to walk a half mile to my next class which starts in five minutes. Okay, so what i am confused about is some of the stuff i have read on here about getting the number/date quickly. Some resources say to be a man and just approach the girl and say that you would like to get to know her better and ask for a phone number. Other information says that you should never say that you like her that quickly because it puts her up on a pedastal. So how do I get a number in 30-90 seconds without giving up my power to her and coming off desperate? thanks

 

[Mr Spitfire]

Stop thinking about pedistals, stop thinking about power, control, does she like me......

Ask her a question. Your question should be mysterious and intrigueing but somehow relevant.

"Where are you going right now?"
"How long is that class?"
"What are you doing after that?"
"I'd like to talk to you some more later."
"What are you doing tonight?"
"Since you are busy give me your number and I we will talk later."

its simple.

 

[Wiesman44]

Talking for 30 to 90 seconds is going to get u a flake most of the time. You need to reach a girls feelings for her to develop some sort of attraction / connection to you. This is done through eliciting values. You can def. throw in some canned routines.

But if you're going to hit on her, you want to give it a good 5 minutes at least.

Saying Hi, blah blah blah, your cute, can I have your # is never going to get you laid. There's exceptions to every rule, but if you wanna learn how to master your game, work in venues where you have more time to chat.