"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A little bit weary/worried

white cloud 8

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Hi,

Here is a scenario: you are out @ a nightclub, party, social event etc. and you meet a girl (her HB status is up to you) and you two hit it off nicely, you're doing your thing making her want you and it happens (or getting close to) you two get it on. The point I am trying to get at is if I ever get into a situation like that I think to myself "Right on, f*ckin' eh" but, then I begin to think it through logically and if it ever did happen I would be weary of whether to go through with it because...well...I don't know her sexual history (what she could be carrying). I know condoms do prevent (in most cases) STDs but, it still would have me worried as hell. I'm looking out for me here, a fling that would only last a night but, would have repercussions/consequences that would affect me otherwise in the long term. Has anyone on this forum experienced this or have advice on whats been said?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sexualchocolate

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Looks like ur not a ONS type of guy. Ur right, there is a lot of stuff floating around nowadays.

If you think the risk is too high to put ur health at risk... you may want to talk about sex first as so many of these std prevention commercials advertise.

Nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy. Just keep shopping around til you find a girl ur comfortable with. There are plenty of girls out there who have a 3 month time delay on their chastity belt (Good sign she's not wh*reish if she makes you wait).

Then talk about getting tested. Then you will both have confidence in ur well-being. Most men wouldnt dream of doing this, but then again thats why std's are so high right now.

Even if everything checks out fine. Please dont think you can go ahead and have unprotected sex. Too many young people having kids that dont need to be.

Dont be puzzy whipped Craig....You gotta reverse it.....Whip that puzzy BANG BANG BANG
 

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Oh f*ck yeah, I will *ALWAYS* use protection, I'm not taking *ANY* chances ;).
 
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